Quote Originally Posted by ivor&mel
The phrase "Don't shoot the messenger" may not apply in this case....
I think a case like this just underlines how some people don't realise whats involved when it comes to having a relationship with someone the other side of the world, it isn't easy, its not cheap and you will encounter hassle, heartbreak and more hassle along the way. When I joined asawa.org a long long time ago, Bob (the forum owner) has a clever way of making people read a lecture of whats to be expected if you choose to have a relationship with a Filipina, before proceeding the forum. Maybe we should at least do something like this here? What do you think guys?