Quote Originally Posted by walesrob
I think a case like this just underlines how some people don't realise whats involved when it comes to having a relationship with someone the other side of the world, it isn't easy, its not cheap and you will encounter hassle, heartbreak and more hassle along the way. When I joined asawa.org a long long time ago, Bob (the forum owner) has a clever way of making people read a lecture of whats to be expected if you choose to have a relationship with a Filipina, before proceeding the forum. Maybe we should at least do something like this here? What do you think guys?

Personally Rob I think its an excellent idea, but I doubt many would read it, and by the way guys I have not answered this e mail, I just get tired of them, so posted it for general viewing, when I get e mails saying to me " My husband can't afford the visa fee " I dont even bother to respond, I get these every week, Gina gets fed up of me reading them out, and answer them, I guess Elsa is the same Rob.