It's very easy to let the heart rule the head, and it so often ends in disappointment and disillusionment. The harsh realities of immigration barriers are not something that people in a new relationship like to dwell on - until they inevitably come face-to-face with them.
I'm not sure about a lecture: is that like a "health warning"? Or CFO even?!If someone wants to join a forum, they'll just say "yeah yeah" to whatever warnings are put in front of them and not take the words onboard? Might create more of a barrier for spammers though
Maybe there should be an aptitude test for people wanting to join? And we could issue a "Filipino UK Certificate of Knowledge"? Now... what could we call it...?
