In my postbag, Filipina in distress

Hi everyone!!

My name is xxx.. And I have been a member of ASAWA since last year…Im a member of asawa when I was just a single..Now, that I am married to a british.. just last year dec., 2005…I also read your many posts, and It really helps…
Im really hesitant to write you here guys, because I thought, I can solve it by myself and through reading of so many posts here, I can do it, but still not enough.. I just need your advice to help me through this..

I really don’t know what shoud I need to apply.. Is it settlement visa/ marriage visa Or visitors-sponsor visa 6 mos.. I don’t have yet child.. but planning to have soon…

My husband said its easier to apply for a visitor-sponsor visa rather than settlement visa.. Well, much cheaper than settlement visa.. Because we have plan if we can apply visitors-visa and approved, we have plan to get married after a month staying in England..

Sorry… my husband is from Essex, England…he was 40 and I am 28 yo.. we are both single and never been married….we have been together june, 2003
He is just only a simple ordinary guy working In a hotel kitchen…and im just only a simple girl working in a private co… I love my husband very much.. He respects me a lot..

Im sorry.. Im from Quezon City, Manila…my Province is Quezon Province, but I grew up in Manila…
Hope you can help me out thnking…I am really confused.. I don’t know what to do…I thought I can do or solve it by myself..by reading to other posts…who will help me my problem..

We don’t have also savings yet,,, since he is only earning 400-500 Pounds average..

I don’t know really what to do …are we qualified to apply visa or not? He wants me to live in England…as for me, I want to be with my husband wherever he goes...

Thank you for all who will patiently reading my post..
I need all your advice..pls...thank you so much...