She's a Catholic; He's not!

[Piamed]

..its not caused any problems with me or the misses in the 8yrs i've known her, you have to give and take..

I agree with that totally. I personally believe that people focus on differences rather than similarities and that causes so many problems. It is clear from so many of your postings that you and your wife have a loving approach to things hence you having minimal problems and mutual resolution when you do disagree.

But then relationships are all about give and take, its not *just about religion.

That is certainly the bottom line. I feel that often religion per se is never a problem but rather the interpretations that individuals make and their decisions to act in ways contrary to the key principles of their faith is what causes many problems.

we worship GOD in different way so we can't judge to them but GOD knows who we are

For those that do worship him that is very true.