wife to husband = "what is mine is mine, what is yours all mine"lol

kidding aside depends upon every household. as what others say here
living(to mention costs are way higher) in Uk is very diffrent here in PI.
i think compromise things and understand way of living in Uk
if the husband not need ur help in finances then be it but if turns the
other way then you have no choice but to have ur share.

good luck clover