Hi Remme..got married to a Brit almost 3 years ago. I understand that overwhelming feelings to be with someone you love. In my case the easiest way to get here in the UK is to apply for a fiance visa. In my case I was granted my visa just a month after I lodged my application. There are no hassles when it comes to requirements. It's just straightforward, really. Donno if it still works the same now. But when I applied for my visa all they asked from me was my passport, completed application form of course and birth certificate...the rest were supplied by my husband. Besides, it's good to come here as a fiance visa first coz you'll never know if you would really get on with him. You know it's different if you will just be meeting and spending time with him for a short span of time. You will only know the real person once you gotta live with him. Goodluck