why do I feel like this?

[David House]

My wife regularly tells me she hates me and that she loves me on the same day, sometimes within the same sentence. It all depends upon the moment. What matters are not the words but the feeling. You will know if she really means it, or if it is attention seeking, or emotional backmail to try to get something! My guess is that she was on a down and you were a convenient target. Husbands and wives are always likely to become the target so we just have to learn to read the signs.

[nomorericepleas]

My wife regularly tells me she hates me and that she loves me on the same day, sometimes within the same sentence. It all depends upon the moment. What matters are not the words but the feeling. You will know if she really means it, or if it is attention seeking, or emotional backmail to try to get something! My guess is that she was on a down and you were a convenient target. Husbands and wives are always likely to become the target so we just have to learn to read the signs.

absolutely. i get the same all the time if she's feeling a bit ratty with her life, and she has a problem. i get the backdraft. Don't take it too much to heart. It's hard to forget such things if you are a thinker and sensitive type. Her actions that follow will help you forget or give you reason to worry.