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    waiting is driving me crazy!!!!

    hello everyone...

    I'm new in this very helpful forum...

    and thought anyone could help me.....i really miss my hubby....

    is there a possibility that a spouse visa will take more than 3 months???

    many thanks....


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    If someone has to wait that long they will. But its really really hard. My wife and are hit 8 weeks waiting today. Some have been waiting 10 weeks now.

    I have tried to call the embassy but cannot get through.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Piamed View Post
    If someone has to wait that long they will. But its really really hard. My wife and are hit 8 weeks waiting today. Some have been waiting 10 weeks now.

    I have tried to call the embassy but cannot get through.
    Patience is a virtue but time is more valuable, right Amigo? Something will turn out good in the days to come... Regards to Amiga.
    Life is a matter of perspective. Either you complain because roses have thorns or you rejoice because thorns have roses. It all depends on how you look at it...


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    Smile many thanks...

    yep your right... thanks


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    Quote Originally Posted by trina View Post
    best of luck to you and to your wife....
    Walang anuman amiga!

    Quote Originally Posted by pat1227 View Post
    Patience is a virtue but time is more valuable, right Amigo? Something will turn out good in the days to come... Regards to Amiga.
    It will certainly all work out for good in His time. Pia says hi.
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    thanks for the reply...
    but refusal of visa is very rare right??? hope so..


    best of luck to you and to your wife....


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    Quote Originally Posted by trina View Post
    hello everyone...

    I'm new in this very helpful forum...

    and thought anyone could help me.....i really miss my hubby....

    is there a possibility that a spouse visa will take more than 3 months???

    many thanks....
    Hi Trina, i emphatize with your sentiment, being separated from a love one is pain...i miss my bf soooo much now like you do and i'm sure i'll be dealing the same thing as you when we lodge our spouse visa application after the wedding on on Aug 8..I guess we cant skip this waiting game.. but a small price to pay for a happily ever after!!


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    Quote Originally Posted by cg.tj View Post
    Hi Trina, i emphatize with your sentiment, being separated from a love one is pain...i miss my bf soooo much now like you do and i'm sure i'll be dealing the same thing as you when we lodge our spouse visa application after the wedding on on Aug 8..I guess we cant skip this waiting game.. but a small price to pay for a happily ever after!!
    Is there no dependent visa anymore?ours took only 12 working days to process, a friend of mine took their application process for 20 working days...

    but for your case yeah I guess you got a lot things to do cause you need to change your surname on your passport to get your hubby to be here in UK


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    Quote Originally Posted by giants View Post
    Is there no dependent visa anymore?ours took only 12 working days to process, a friend of mine took their application process for 20 working days...

    but for your case yeah I guess you got a lot things to do cause you need to change your surname on your passport to get your hubby to be here in UK
    well for your info GIANTS...we don't need to change our surname in our passport rightway.... HOPE YOU KNOW THIS
    Matt & Trina Leach


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    Quote Originally Posted by trina View Post
    well for your info GIANTS...we don't need to change our surname in our passport rightway.... HOPE YOU KNOW THIS

    My fault, wrong understanding, yup this message of mine is out of context. At first I thought you're here in UK and you went home to marry and you'e just waiting for your hubby's visa, that's why I asked about the dependent visa. I never thought you married a British guy.Sorry my fault.

    By the way, are you mad?Cause I do can read a black and font size 12 you know.


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    Quote Originally Posted by giants View Post
    My fault, wrong understanding, yup this message of mine is out of context. At first I thought you're here in UK and you went home to marry and you'e just waiting for your hubby's visa, that's why I asked about the dependent visa. I never thought you married a British guy.Sorry my fault.

    By the way, are you mad?Cause I do can read a black and font size 12 you know.
    I know exactly what you meant...and all I'm trying to point out is that...sometimes for you to have a better and best result is..to be POSITIVE all the time... yeah expect the unexpected...but I'm not expecting that unexpected....thanks anyway
    Matt & Trina Leach


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    hi cg...
    we already got married last may 13,2008and my hubby had to leave for work last May 20 and I Handed in my application last June 23rd...
    i know that I'm just being silly..its because its just been 2 weeks from the day that I submitted...


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    Quote Originally Posted by trina View Post
    hi cg...
    we already got married last may 13,2008and my hubby had to leave for work last May 20 and I Handed in my application last June 23rd...
    i know that I'm just being silly..its because its just been 2 weeks from the day that I submitted...
    hehehehe just chill, i know these guys here can guide you a lot...


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    is there someone out there know where to buy a chill tablet.....lol....


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    yep...yep...yep... you're right


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    hi trina, have u heard about NO!!!! internet calls to your phone.if u have internet access at home, u can download the software to ur cellphone, connect it to ur wireless network, then make calls to your honey ...its very simple. saves both of u tons of money from phone calls.me and my fiance's been using it and we're satisfied so far..


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    really??? wow...I will discuss that to my Hubby that we should try that....
    we just used a video calling every time we're chatting online....


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    Quote Originally Posted by trina View Post
    really??? wow...I will discuss that to my Hubby that we should try that....
    we just used a video calling every time we're chatting online....
    Yes definitely, try to check it out..might be worth looking..


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    Quote Originally Posted by cg.tj View Post
    hi trina, have u heard about ??? internet calls to your phone.if u have internet access at home, u can download the software to ur cellphone, connect it to ur wireless network, then make calls to your honey ...its very simple. saves both of u tons of money from phone calls.me and my fiance's been using it and we're satisfied so far..
    sorry walesrob..


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    Quote Originally Posted by cg.tj View Post
    sorry walesrob..
    No worries.

    Welcome to the forum


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    Quote Originally Posted by walesrob View Post
    No worries.

    Welcome to the forum
    thank u loads


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    Quote Originally Posted by trina View Post
    hello everyone...

    I'm new in this very helpful forum...

    and thought anyone could help me.....i really miss my hubby....

    is there a possibility that a spouse visa will take more than 3 months???

    many thanks....
    i think it depends sis, maybe they're just busy now coz when i apply for my visa,way back 2006, it only takes 3 days.so just wait and pray,you can have it soon. refusal is very rare to those applicant that submit complete documents...
    goodluck to your visa!
    for the mean time, just take your time enjoying with us here in this forum!


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    Quote Originally Posted by telford View Post
    i think it depends sis, maybe they're just busy now coz when i apply for my visa,way back 2006, it only takes 3 days.so just wait and pray,you can have it soon. refusal is very rare to those applicant that submit complete documents...
    goodluck to your visa!
    for the mean time, just take your time enjoying with us here in this forum!
    i applied for a visa back in jan 2005, took near 3 months, would have taken longer if i had not complained, brits put up with bad service, if it was a private company and not the gov, you should get your money back and someone should get sacked , then again it is a private company now that accepts the apps , so is this causing further delays btw them and the embassy ?

    if you got your visa in 3 days, you were very lucky, sometimes its got nothing to do with evidence you submitted, they never asked for more evidence from us, infact we had more evidence than most on here, letters dating back years, 1000s of pages of chat logs, i had gone to the phils 6 timesto see her, we had been married more than 2yrs b4 we applied for a visa..

    long delays because the embassy has moved, holiday time as embassy and the visa processing peeps go on their hols, busiest time of the year to, when most people apply for visa's


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    Quote Originally Posted by joebloggs View Post
    i applied for a visa back in jan 2005, took near 3 months, would have taken longer if i had not complained, brits put up with bad service, if it was a private company and not the gov, you should get your money back and someone should get sacked , then again it is a private company now that accepts the apps , so is this causing further delays btw them and the embassy ?

    if you got your visa in 3 days, you were very lucky, sometimes its got nothing to do with evidence you submitted, they never asked for more evidence from us, infact we had more evidence than most on here, letters dating back years, 1000s of pages of chat logs, i had gone to the phils 6 timesto see her, we had been married more than 2yrs b4 we applied for a visa..

    long delays because the embassy has moved, holiday time as embassy and the visa processing peeps go on their hols, busiest time of the year to, when most people apply for visa's
    maybe we're just lucky that time, coz i also have a friend that apply for spouse visa same time as me, she also got her visa in just 3 days...


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    Quote Originally Posted by joebloggs View Post
    i applied for a visa back in jan 2005, took near 3 months, would have taken longer if i had not complained, brits put up with bad service, if it was a private company and not the gov, you should get your money back and someone should get sacked , then again it is a private company now that accepts the apps , so is this causing further delays btw them and the embassy ?

    if you got your visa in 3 days, you were very lucky, sometimes its got nothing to do with evidence you submitted, they never asked for more evidence from us, infact we had more evidence than most on here, letters dating back years, 1000s of pages of chat logs, i had gone to the phils 6 timesto see her, we had been married more than 2yrs b4 we applied for a visa..

    long delays because the embassy has moved, holiday time as embassy and the visa processing peeps go on their hols, busiest time of the year to, when most people apply for visa's

    yeah WAITING is the name of the Game...


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    Quote Originally Posted by joebloggs View Post
    i applied for a visa back in jan 2005, took near 3 months, would have taken longer if i had not complained, brits put up with bad service, if it was a private company and not the gov, you should get your money back and someone should get sacked , then again it is a private company now that accepts the apps , so is this causing further delays btw them and the embassy ?

    if you got your visa in 3 days, you were very lucky, sometimes its got nothing to do with evidence you submitted, they never asked for more evidence from us, infact we had more evidence than most on here, letters dating back years, 1000s of pages of chat logs, i had gone to the phils 6 timesto see her, we had been married more than 2yrs b4 we applied for a visa..

    long delays because the embassy has moved, holiday time as embassy and the visa processing peeps go on their hols, busiest time of the year to, when most people apply for visa's



    See what I mean Trina, they've been married for 2yrs before applying a visa and he'd gone to the Phil how many times just to visit her....but according to my research yeah sometimes it take 3 mos for a settlement visa or spouse to process just fingers cross..ok

    cheers


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    really 3 days??? whoooaaa...

    I hope i will get mine very soon.... I really do want to be with my husband again....

    7 months of being boyfriend/girlfriend then get married on the 8 months is a factor of refusal of visa????


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    Quote Originally Posted by trina View Post
    really 3 days??? whoooaaa...

    I hope i will get mine very soon.... I really do want to be with my husband again....

    7 months of being boyfriend/girlfriend then get married on the 8 months is a factor of refusal of visa????
    as long as you are not recourse of public funds, then you will be ok


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    yep were not intend to recourse any public funds...My hubby has a permanent job as a solicitor lawyer....and I'm willing to work as a Nurse there.... so I think in that case we can support each other....


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    Quote Originally Posted by trina View Post
    yep were not intend to recourse any public funds...My hubby has a permanent job as a solicitor lawyer....and I'm willing to work as a Nurse there.... so I think in that case we can support each other....
    then you have nothing to worry! just relax and wait for your visa.for the mean time, enjoy the life of pinas,surely you'll gonna miss it


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