Hi jedc143 and benb...yes I love her very much..(just like piamed does his lady) and it's true..she does not want to come here (and I don't blame her one bit...it's going to get worse) and yes..I plan to retire in the Filipines (or China..as we have some friends and relatives there) and live on my pension and bring up our new little one when he/she is born...Nisa is the ONLY lady I have ever met, who does not want anything from me...only my love....and I feel the same way towards her (and if I knew how to do smileys here..I do one with a big kiss hahahaha)