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    Post 7 months of bf/gf...

    My husband and I met in dating sites last october 2007 and from then we start talking every night and been a routine of our everyday life... during then we felt that we LOVE each other soooo much that we are comfortable and perfect for each other even we didn't even see each other personally.. and spend the rest of our life together...He booked his flight then to come and see me for the first time and also to get married to me....before he went here we've been planning and arranging documents for our wedding..and everything done as we've planned...and We are so happy to become one...

    My only question is being in a short engagement and first time saw each other can make an application refuse???


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    NO,based on what i read on the forum trina...been a member here January 2008 i kept reading and as what other members says w/ their success visa,its not how many months u know each other,its how u gonna prove that u had a genuine relationship

    anyway,good luck to you


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    Quote Originally Posted by jedc143 View Post
    NO,based on what i read on the forum trina...been a member here January 2008 i kept reading and as what other members says w/ their success visa,its not how many months u know each other,its how u gonna prove that u had a genuine relationship

    anyway,good luck to you
    thanks jedc143..

    i'm sure we can prove the Entry clearance officer that we do have a genuine relationship.... "HOPE sooo"... fingers cross

    hope we receive our VISA this week...good luck!


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    What is the shortest acceptable by ECO? Does anyone know?

    Quote Originally Posted by trina View Post
    My husband and I met in dating sites last october 2007 and from then we start talking every night and been a routine of our everyday life... during then we felt that we LOVE each other soooo much that we are comfortable and perfect for each other even we didn't even see each other personally.. and spend the rest of our life together...He booked his flight then to come and see me for the first time and also to get married to me....before he went here we've been planning and arranging documents for our wedding..and everything done as we've planned...and We are so happy to become one...

    My only question is being in a short engagement and first time saw each other can make an application refuse???
    Hi Trina, I also met my wife in Oct 2007 in Manila for the first time by chance. We got engaged on New Year and married in April 2008. She applied for spouse visa in May 2008. She is now in her 9th week and waiting.

    I suppose its the relationship evidence that matters.

    Best Wishes,
    Ben B


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    hi ben b

    thanks for that...i hope me and your wife will get our VISA this week...and i read that your wife is pregnant congratulations....


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    Many Thanks Trina.

    I'm sure that its only a matter of time for all us. However, I still think that it will take 12 weeks, maybe more due to the recent embassy relocation and numerous other applications.

    My guess is that there are additional background checks in place to fight terrorism threats.

    Best Wishes,
    Ben B


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    Quote Originally Posted by benb View Post
    Many Thanks Trina.

    I'm sure that its only a matter of time for all us. However, I still think that it will take 12 weeks, maybe more due to the recent embassy relocation and numerous other applications.

    My guess is that there are additional background checks in place to fight terrorism threats.

    Best Wishes,
    Ben B
    NO don't think like that...12 weeks is fair enough...i don't think i can take another days or even months to wait...


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    we hAve been waiting for more than 7 weeks now.missing my husband too so much
    wish we have our visa soon.good luck to everyone


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    yep sconnie...its really hard to think that we're not with our love one..especially in this stressful waiting... well its my 3rd weeks of waiting today...

    we will get our VISA this week... I'm sure of that...


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    hopefully trina,cant wait another week or month being away from my husband
    btw where are you in PI?


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    Batangas City... what about you??? when did you got married??? still working???


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    we got married april 8 2008,i lodge my appliction last may 22nd,im in manila right now


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    ahhh...well we got married last may 13, 2008...I was planning then to submit my application first week of june...but because of the MC in Secpa paper...(NSO waiting game) i had to handed in my application last june 23, 2008... but where exactly are you in PI??


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    malate,same as mine,had go back to NSO office several times


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    ahh ok...are you still working??? what profession???


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    im not working anymore.how about you?


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    what part of uk you are going to?


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    Lancashire.... nope..just recently working as a nurse but then i had to stop to spend most of my time with our wedding before and my application....
    what about you???


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    I met my girlfriend in oct. 2007 too, must be a lucky month.
    I've been to see her once & hoping to go again, beginning of october.
    We're not engaged or anything yet, but we get on so well, so who knows?

    Good luck! to all.


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    hi sim11uk..
    well good luck... i'm sure you'll never regret being with a filipina...


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    i only worked as a cashier in a computer shop and accesories.


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    that's a nice job...
    anyway i really do hope that we get our VISA this week....for us to be with our love one...
    it really drives me crazy...hehehe....


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    where are you going in UK??


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    yes,driving us all crazy
    my husband is in newcastle.
    hope we can meet there when we get our visa
    hehehe


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    yep we will...we have to set a date for that...ahh ok my husband is a graduate of newcastle university...he is a lawyer....what about yours???


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    my husband is working in siemens.he is an engineer


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    im really praying hard for us to get our visa soon,anyway im vanessa


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    a nice profession too.... well good luck to us....


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    Quote Originally Posted by trina View Post
    My husband and I met in dating sites last october 2007 and from then we start talking every night and been a routine of our everyday life... during then we felt that we LOVE each other soooo much that we are comfortable and perfect for each other even we didn't even see each other personally.. and spend the rest of our life together...He booked his flight then to come and see me for the first time and also to get married to me....before he went here we've been planning and arranging documents for our wedding..and everything done as we've planned...and We are so happy to become one...

    My only question is being in a short engagement and first time saw each other can make an application refuse???
    Just make sure you have saved all of your chat logs as this will help you prove that although you hadn't met before he came there to marry you, you had been communicating on a daily basis.

    Cheers,
    Iain.


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    thanks Iain...

    yep i already did that...i saved it all from day 1 until now..because i'm just not using it as an evidence but also as a souvenir of our love story that in the future are children to be can read that...

    i printed that all and book bound it every month so i submitted that book of chats from october 2007 to june2008

    and even emails and text messages


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