hello. i've got married recently and my mahal go back to UK a month after our wedding.
somethings bothering me, my mahal went back to UK and wev been apart for a few months now. just want to know something if its Brit's peoples culture to entertain friends always like inviting them over to their place for a dinner?
since im not there pa, he is lonely, and he would invite his friends/offis mate to cook and have dinner. then the following week, he will be with that friend again, and the following week again then a time in few days. this bothered me because this is not Filipino culture. or is it just im being jealous? you know girl's insticts? somtimes i will feel that something is going on. I would feel this when his girl friend (always same girl) would visit his house. is that normal there?
should i worry? I trust him, but its hard being apart. should this be jelousy? how will i deal this? like right now,we were chatting and that girl again knocked at his door and he said bye to me online. should I worry? how will I deal about this?
Originally Posted by blackpearl
hello. i've got married recently and my mahal go back to UK a month after our wedding.For sure your husband loves you. I understand what you feel. But the best solution to that is go talk to your husband. If you are not comfortable in saying it, just email him. You are starting a new life with your hubby and unfortunately you are apart. Thats normal for you to be jealous, but you should not let that 'GREEN EYED monster' (jealousy) ruin your relationship with your husband specially now that you are newly married and apart. TRUST and COMMUNICATION are some of the key elements of a successful and happy marriage. You need to TRUST him, he vowed to you on your wedding right? you should take hold of that. You need to learn to communicate to your hubby everything that bothers you about your relationship, so you could resolve it together right away. If you are bothered by that girl friend of his visiting his house, say it to him, talk about it and agree on something to resolve it. I assure you, being open to him will make him love you more .
