Hello. I would like an advise from everyone who can help me. I have been reading this forum for quite sometime now. It has a lot of useful infos, but i still have my questions unanswered.

I have known my fiance for 4yrs now. We met in yahoo chat 2004. I didn't thought that it will work out. I always have bad perception about long distance relationship. I was too busy with my works before and never get around to actually thought of following him to uk. As he was unstable that time too. Until last Mar 2008.. He came as much to my surprise. I was so happy. I knew right then, i want to be with him. We were engaged right then. And he filed an application online while he was here. We recvd an email from the embassy and an instructions. We didn't comply right away, since all the documents are not ready. His planning in coming back in september this year makes me too busy of plannin for my wedding.

Now after reading some of these useful advises from the forum, I felt We need to wait until we get married and file for a spousal visa after. It just worries me, coz we already submitted an application for a visit visa last march. Would it cause a problem for my application? And on his part as my husband... I know he needs to show that he can basically accomodate my stay in uk. But the guy doesnt have savings. Although he got a good work and has been working as regular employee for a year now. I don't know if it would help my application enough for a spousal visa. And for the evidence of relationship. I have lost all the logs from my archive in 2004. My computer was reformatted last nov 2007. Would that western union receipt, i have that save since 2004. Thats the only evidence that i got from our relationship. We don't email. Just phone calls and chats. I still have those phone calls statements from way back 2004. Would those evidence sufficient enough? :( And last, when i get married to him this september... do i need a new passport to have my surname change to his? coz i just got mine last february...

Please Help! Any advise and tips are most welcome. Thank you.