I understand cause i know the life in the province and that makes them no choice to do things that they dont even want to do. Most of them, they are the breed winner of there family, but all are in different story, situition, and background..So its up to yourself if you go for it or not...the only thing i will tell to paul is theres alot of women around which have a good intention to a relationship,who knows the true meaning of love. Give the very best thing of yourself and look the girl that really suits to you.