Originally Posted by
russ01539
I can see where all you guys are coming from, having found my fiance, who hails from Angeles City (she owned her own internet cafe). But most of her custom came from bar girls, not all of which were in fact hookers. One particular friend of my fiance, who shall remain nameless worked as a bar girl, and thru the cafe my fiance owned I struck up a platonic friendship with her. In truth I was curious to find out 'how the system worked'. The bar girl in question was working there to support her family in the province, and her 'employment' was kept a secret from her family.
After chatting to this girl for 2 years I came to realise that in fact she really was just a lost little girl who desperately wanted her family to have a better life and in fact she saw her job as a necessary sacrifice to do what she felt duty bound to do. She claims, and I believe her, that she was still a 'cherry girl'.
Anyway, to cut a long story short I introduced her to my friend, who after chatting for 4 months decided to go and see her. Up until this point she never asked for money for anything, and refused it when offered. My friend went to see her and fell head over heals in love with her. At this point he made the decision to send this girl back to her family in the province and send support for both her and her family. They are now engaged to be married, and my friend will go out their in 2 weeks time to spend more time getting to know her, to develop their relationship.
I will agree that she still has some what I would describe as 'bar girl' tendencies. ie. she slightly exagerates on the amounts of money she needs for the process of visa application etc. but nevertheless I firmly believe their relationship will blossom and they will get their visa and be married, and God bless, live happily ever after.
I will keep you all posted.
