Quote Originally Posted by paul2012
she said she would keep working anyway. i was always aware of that.
what she said was, she wouldnt have another boyfriend or fall in love with anyone else. it all remains to be seen. from where i am now, I'm looking at it as an interesting experience. I wonder how long her interest will last if I'm not sending her money. I know she wont starve so I'll just see if she has the patience to wait a few months to see me again. I have a friend living there who i've asked to keep an eye on her and let me know if she's bullshitting me.
are any of those sites free btw or all paying?
Well, if she is still porking other guys and going out bar fine and all that then you may as well treat her as just another bar girl. I can guarantee that next time you go over there you'll be thinking "Hmm, maybe I'll just shop around for a couple of days before I go and hunt her down, see what else this town has to offer"

Been there, got the T shirt.