Hi everyone,
I am not directing this message to everyone who has a foreign husband or wife. This thread doesn't deal in general nor anybody in particular.
First I just want to give my deepest apology that come from my heart to anyone who might got struck by some sensitive matters this thread would do.
It is so annoying for me to see some message like "Filipina looking for British guy", "Pinay looking for a relationship", "Filipina wants a friend in UK". It was so disgusting, aren't you have enough friends in the Phill? Isn't a relationship build from a friendship? What's goin on with you people. I know our country in in a deep **** hole, but you don't need to sell yourself just to get out of there. And what?the easiest thing is to marry someone you haven't seen or someone you barely know. It's all because of the MONEY, CASH that will make your life easier but where is LOVE? Where is the months or years of courting getting to know each other. It was a shame that some people uses their body just to get what they want. Oh come on let's just be honest for ourself even just once. Why do you go online and look for husband (chatmate?you big LIAR) while you got a lot of suitors around you.....why? Because you don't want to be on the deep black hole of poverty, you want to get rich, you want to help your family, but where is the LOVE? Well, I guess Filipinas are getting into the wave of the 21st century. I do salute OFW fathers who works on the fields of Middles east torturing their body to the heat and hard work, to those seaman who seldom see the ground for months, to OFW mothers who works as DH, working so hard yet still maltreated and sometime killed. I really satute this people specially the Filipina mother who works hard just to give better future to their family. But some chooses the other way around. Uses their body, beautiful faces, flirting ability and charisma online that somehow a rich foreigner gets on their way and finally ask her to marry him. How easy to get rich right? It really annoys me to see Filipina walking and all over her foreign boyfriend or husband. Well you really need to hug him that much cause he might slip away then you find yourself going home. What annoys me more is that they don't even smile if they saw some of their fellow countrymen.What a bitch.
But I am not referring this in general, I do have friends who get married to foreigners, they've been together abroad for a long time before settling down.First they became friends as they're working on the same company, they get along and living happily. That's what a good marriage should be building from years of friendship, deeper relationship and finally settling down to marriage now we can say there is a genuine LOVE there. You can't find LOVE online, on the chat room cause people tells 90% lies online.
Again I have no againts racial couples if your marriage was built form years not months of true friendship, to courting, to a deeper realationship then I do beleive this is true LOVE and really devoted to each other, but if you've only knew the guy for months and barely knew him at all I guess your marriage is more on financial security reason and not LOVE. Come on that's 100% true but don't you worry foreign guys knows it all along. Foreign guys (specially the old ones) needs companions, caring, some bit of love maybe and you need finacial security...hhhhhmmm seems fair enough.
This thread will means nothing to someone whom it will not apply for so don't be so defensive......cheers
