they come online to find theyre Love thereit is not a problem to have a short term relationship to ur bf/gf/ now husband/wife. And who cares if we found a foreign partner,we choose for ourself but who give us to them? I met my hubby online and we spent years chatting , emailing ,texting , calling each other. By then ,we used to get to know each other by using this computer.It is better than penpal eh? i mean sending love letter through fedex,LBC,Fax n Parcel that cost too much than chatting ... atleast we have a webcam to see who we chatting to and not guessing if ur chatmates is a transexual or wat...i know to myself that i have a true and genuine relationship with my hubby even tho i met him online.I fully love him that Money Can't Buy.