Where is the LOVE.....?

[Piamed]

I fail to see how anyone can be so committed to another person before they have actually met in person.

I know where you are coming from there Peter but I have heard similar statements such as I don't understand how:
someone can love a much older partner
someone could go out with a black guy
someone could mary a non-filipino guy
some could marry a filipina
someone could meet someone online

Many things we don't understand are really quite clear to others. Love can make many things crystal clear to the extent that the conventional expectations/wisdoms of an individual become obsolete.