Give it alot of thought...you are both still young and no need to hurry. You are not thinking of marrying him yet are you? Keep it mind if he really loves you, he wouldnt hurt you in any way.Originally Posted by traveller
Give it alot of thought...you are both still young and no need to hurry. You are not thinking of marrying him yet are you? Keep it mind if he really loves you, he wouldnt hurt you in any way.
Am I in a different world here? The girl has said that he hits her!!!! - And the last few posts have talked about ' a way out of the problem!!!!'
I'm sorry, but any man who hits a girl should be locked up in my opinion!!
End of story!
Al.
my fiancee hit me and kicked me before too. she also locked me out of the house and threw water on me when i tried to sleep outside on the garden bench, when i didnt move she boiled the water.
I don't think i deserved any of it. sometimes people have reasons for erratic behaviour. So i was able to forgive my fiancee for that and many more violent acts that i wont go into now.
I admit, i don't think a man should be hitting a lady. I think this woman is amazing for sticking with this guy so long even though he seems to have absolutely nothing going for him. Maybe she knows no-one else will want him so she's saving him from a lonely life??
Well, he deserves a lonely life if he has a bad attitude and is violent and doesnt even make an effort in any area. He appears obnoxious in general. There's no need for him to act that way to anyone. I'm all for listening to both sides, but.......
I'm really curious! What did you do to deserve that?my fiancee hit me and kicked me before too. she also locked me out of the house and threw water on me when i tried to sleep outside on the garden bench, when i didnt move she boiled the water.
I don't think i deserved any of it.
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Cheers
He bought a Cardiff season ticketI'm really curious! What did you do to deserve that?
Keith - Administrator
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He bought a Cardiff season ticket
i wouldnt buy any season ticket to watch football. As i said already i don't like drama queens. I grew out of football many years ago. Now life gives me grown up things to worry about like women and money.
well on that occasion i didnt want to dance. she was a bit drunk at the disco, i'm not a dancer so declined. She said i showed her up in front of everyone else by not dancing with her. She got stroppy and decided we should go home. she didnt go for our motor, but instead walked off to a tricycle.I'm really curious! What did you do to deserve that?
Cheers
i got on our motor and went home alone, then she tried to slam the gate on me and the bike when i got there. you know the rest, well parts of it. i wont go into it all its too depressing to think about.
apparently i should have run after her to ask her to ride home with me. ermm it's not my way to run after stroppy women, if she wanted to behave that way, it's up to her. I'm not into chasing drama queens. I think if i say i don't feel comfortable to dance at that time, thats it. I'm not a dancer, i never was and i rarely try it. I'm 45 i lookwhen i try to look 20 on the dance floor.
In the KTV bar when i had a few too many among friends i can try, but in a disco surrounded by youngsters and pro dancers, i didnt feel like making a pillock of myself. I didnt deserve being locked out or getting some things smashed up. But thats just my opinion, no doubt someone will tell me otherwise
Mate, on the dance floor, forget about what others think! you have your lovely lady and that is all that matters. Just have a great time dancing with her. She will love you no matter how you dance. You don't have to be a fantastic dancer to prove anything. Others may look, but that is probably out of jealousy than anything else. Forget them, no one is too old to dance.well on that occasion i didnt want to dance. she was a bit drunk at the disco, i'm not a dancer so declined. She said i showed her up in front of everyone else by not dancing with her. She got stroppy and decided we should go home. she didnt go for our motor, but instead walked off to a tricycle.
i got on our motor and went home alone, then she tried to slam the gate on me and the bike when i got there. you know the rest, well parts of it. i wont go into it all its too depressing to think about.
apparently i should have run after her to ask her to ride home with me. ermm it's not my way to run after stroppy women, if she wanted to behave that way, it's up to her. I'm not into chasing drama queens. I think if i say i don't feel comfortable to dance at that time, thats it. I'm not a dancer, i never was and i rarely try it. I'm 45 i look
In the KTV bar when i had a few too many among friends i can try, but in a disco surrounded by youngsters and pro dancers, i didnt feel like making a pillock of myself. I didnt deserve being locked out or getting some things smashed up. But thats just my opinion, no doubt someone will tell me otherwise
Cheers,
Unless you are like me, I have a leg 2.5 inches shorter than my left leg
from a car accident and have a built up shoe to walk evenly.
Anyway I must be a very good dancer because, when lam pissed and get up to dance, everyone leaves the dance floor and points their fingers at me.
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