Quote Originally Posted by joebloggs View Post
... i hope you don't have kids with him, it will not only be you he's punching, so if you will not leave him, think about what kinda life any kids would have, and do it for them, if not for yourself
I have the horrible feeling that this guy would do more than punch the kids - from what I read, I suspect that the insecurity and ostracisation is the sort of background which can lead to child abuse.

Traveller, I will repeat what others have said - Get out now, while you can, and don't look back.