What a great thread has everything and just goes to prove that theres nowt so strange as folks.
I also suspect that the diversity of human relationships is somewhat wider than might be guessed from some of the reactions here.and it is true that there really is someone for everyone.
Having "restrained" women that would give Henry Cooper a run for his money professionally ,I would say there are no absolutes.
Violence is not an exclusive male preserve far from it and i have met both women and men who delight and apparently crave it for what ever reason I for one accept your rant traveller without any advice but an appreciation of your wish to share.
