Quote Originally Posted by jencha8569 View Post
you were unlucky to meet him sounds a nightmare !!
get on with life without him or you will live a miserable life with him.
you have to accept its not good for you to be with this man.
he dosnt love you,if he did he wouldnt hit you or try to control you.
this is just the start.he could get worse ...
value yourself more highly ,you dont need him at all.
i think you have low self esteem.otherwise you would have
heeded the warning signs and left him a long time ago .
fair enough its your life but as you can see all of your friends
on this website know very well that HE IS IN THE WRONG AND THERE
IS NO EXCUSE FOR HIS VIOLENT BEHAVIOUR.
get out before things spiral into complete submission.
noone else can make you leave him but you must do it .
i cannot see any reason for you to love him.
take care of yourself .

are u saying that he is not capable of change?
and that he is going to be like that no matter which girl he is going to end up with in the long run?

also please consider that he is very charming so im sure he will get girls through the internet..but as time passes by thats when he shows his true colors

also if he does not love me? then would he able to love another and change into a better person?