My bf has body odor

[andypaul]

Are you both British?

I am also

[KeithD]

I am also

Hello Also

[andypaul]

Hello Also

HI Admin

[PeterB]

... i hope you don't have kids with him, it will not only be you he's punching, so if you will not leave him, think about what kinda life any kids would have, and do it for them, if not for yourself

I have the horrible feeling that this guy would do more than punch the kids - from what I read, I suspect that the insecurity and ostracisation is the sort of background which can lead to child abuse.

Traveller, I will repeat what others have said - Get out now, while you can, and don't look back.

[keithAngel]

In fact having consideration for all the evidence give me his address and we can have a necktie party wee ha

oops did i get carried away

[jencha8569]

you were unlucky to meet him sounds a nightmare !!
get on with life without him or you will live a miserable life with him.
you have to accept its not good for you to be with this man.
he dosnt love you,if he did he wouldnt hit you or try to control you.
this is just the start.he could get worse ...
value yourself more highly ,you dont need him at all.
i think you have low self esteem.otherwise you would have
heeded the warning signs and left him a long time ago .
fair enough its your life but as you can see all of your friends
on this website know very well that HE IS IN THE WRONG AND THERE
IS NO EXCUSE FOR HIS VIOLENT BEHAVIOUR.
get out before things spiral into complete submission.
noone else can make you leave him but you must do it .
i cannot see any reason for you to love him.
take care of yourself .

[aromulus]

maybe ill just rant on my own in my diary or whatever
im done with this

We all gave you free advice on your situation according to what you described, out of sincere concern for a friend.

If you cannot accept it, just say so, without having to show such ingratitude.

Maybe, yes, you are better out of here.

Babay....

[Geraldine]

maybe ill just rant on my own in my diary or whatever
im done with this

I suggest we all just concentrate on the topic - her bf's body odor.
She wouldnt listen to any advice anyway.

[KeithD]

Sniff glue.....kills your sense of smell

[keithAngel]

What a great thread has everything and just goes to prove that theres nowt so strange as folks.

I also suspect that the diversity of human relationships is somewhat wider than might be guessed from some of the reactions here.and it is true that there really is someone for everyone.

Having "restrained" women that would give Henry Cooper a run for his money professionally ,I would say there are no absolutes.

Violence is not an exclusive male preserve far from it and i have met both women and men who delight and apparently crave it for what ever reason I for one accept your rant traveller without any advice but an appreciation of your wish to share.

[andy17]

Thanks for sharing your situation Traveller... I think you have laid your story out and didn't expect the reactions you got considering it was originally about B.O.... take some time to consider what has been written for you - everyone here just wants the best for you.

Considering your guy spends a lot of time on the internet chatting on all sorts of websites, I just wondered if he might be reading this rant??? Be careful with your sign on etc , if he reads all this stuff god knows what he might do!

Please please please listen to what all your friends are telling you - there are a lot of guys out there who would be a perfect gentleman to you, smell fresh and still be good in bed! This guy is your first one - I hope he's not your last. Get out fast and start looking around!!
Best wishes,
Andy

[USA]

Ok, this thread was a joke right?
Ummm... maybe not. I have known and even worked with men with a body odor problem before. I always wondered how it worked with their ladies (in the cases that they actually had ladies)
I wonder about such things sometimes... like when someone has a bad flatuence problem, how do they deal with that early on in dating?
Anyway- take it from a guy with a couple of long term relationships (including a 10 year marriage)under his belt and for better or worse had sex with- oh lets say- a couple hundred women, this guy is NOT good in bed. In fact he`s lousy. He stinks!(pun intended)
You WILL find this out when you get together with another guy or two.

[keithAngel]

Ok, this thread was a joke right?
Ummm... maybe not. and for better or worse had sex with- oh lets say- a couple hundred women, this guy is NOT good in bed. .

Gosh that's around eight a year and a ten year marriage as well that's quiet something to achieve , I bet the ladies here will all be impressed

[USA]

Gosh that's around eight a year and a ten year marriage as well that's quiet something to achieve , I bet the ladies here will all be impressed

Yeah, that thought occured to me as I was writing that. On the other hand I dont have B.O. and when in a committed relationship I am faithful for real.(unlike like some men that just say it or are only faithful because of lack of opportunity) What can I say? I like the company of women. Men blather on about sports too much... and they smell bad.
I just hope my GF doesnt find this forum and read that post!
Thanks for your input KeithAngel.

[tomoboyle2000]

Gosh that's around eight a year and a ten year marriage as well that's quiet something to achieve , I bet the ladies here will all be impressed

USA is really Peter Stringfellow

[USA]

USA is really Peter Stringfellow

Oh, he says 3000 women-I`m sure its a lie. At least give me credit for actually being an American(not faking as one) and for being honest about it-Lets say I`m Gene Simmons with 4000.

[tomoboyle2000]

Oh, he says 3000 women-I`m sure its a lie. At least give me credit for actually being an American(not faking as one) and for being honest about it-Lets say I`m Gene Simmons with 4000.

Thats no good USA, The Kiss guy is from Israel.

[USA]

Thats no good USA, The Kiss guy is from Israel.

Born in Israel, naturalized citizen of USA.

[tomoboyle2000]

Born in Israel, naturalized citizen of USA.

Also got a great Tongue

[KeithD]

Also got a great Tongue

You've had him?

[benb]

You've had him?

[Cheryl Tyndall]

How could you sleep with him without smelling his armpits closer to your nose? And you consider him as good in bed... You must be joking..

[Mrs.JMajor]

How could you sleep with him without smelling his armpits closer to your nose? And you consider him as good in bed... You must be joking..

i agree

[traveller]

you were unlucky to meet him sounds a nightmare !!
get on with life without him or you will live a miserable life with him.
you have to accept its not good for you to be with this man.
he dosnt love you,if he did he wouldnt hit you or try to control you.
this is just the start.he could get worse ...
value yourself more highly ,you dont need him at all.
i think you have low self esteem.otherwise you would have
heeded the warning signs and left him a long time ago .
fair enough its your life but as you can see all of your friends
on this website know very well that HE IS IN THE WRONG AND THERE
IS NO EXCUSE FOR HIS VIOLENT BEHAVIOUR.
get out before things spiral into complete submission.
noone else can make you leave him but you must do it .
i cannot see any reason for you to love him.
take care of yourself .

are u saying that he is not capable of change?
and that he is going to be like that no matter which girl he is going to end up with in the long run?

also please consider that he is very charming so im sure he will get girls through the internet..but as time passes by thats when he shows his true colors

also if he does not love me? then would he able to love another and change into a better person?

[traveller]

Thanks for sharing your situation Traveller... I think you have laid your story out and didn't expect the reactions you got considering it was originally about B.O.... take some time to consider what has been written for you - everyone here just wants the best for you.

Considering your guy spends a lot of time on the internet chatting on all sorts of websites, I just wondered if he might be reading this rant??? Be careful with your sign on etc , if he reads all this stuff god knows what he might do!

Please please please listen to what all your friends are telling you - there are a lot of guys out there who would be a perfect gentleman to you, smell fresh and still be good in bed! This guy is your first one - I hope he's not your last. Get out fast and start looking around!!
Best wishes,
Andy

thanks, yeah im worried about that too...who knows if he has read this thing...i hope not

[jencha8569]

ok so if you are prepared to put up with his behaviour then dont write on here complaining about it ..
your a soft touch and easy target as far as what you have said on here..
remember, we all warned you ...
i hope you do yourself a favour and get out while you can .

[KeithD]

If you REALLY loved him, you'd be telling him all this this, and not strangers, which says you feel more pity for him than love, and you are confusing the two.

[benb]

Folks, its more to do with money I think!

Where do I go if I leave him?
What do I do?
Can I get a new boyfriend?
How do I face my family?
Do I loose my right and go back to Philippines?

Just a thought...
Prove me wrong!

[maria_and_matt]

Folks, its more to do with money I think!

Where do I go if I leave him?
What do I do?
Can I get a new boyfriend?
How do I face my family?
Do I loose my right and go back to Philippines?

Just a thought...
Prove me wrong!

some women are just into abusive relationship, but just in case these questions ever crossed her mind:

there are always people who help abused women, you will be taken cared of by charities that deal with people in situations like yours.

what do you do??? you start a new life! you bf is not the beginning, middle and end of yours.

your family is not in your situation so they do not know how hard it gets, when i got divorced from my first husband 11 years ago my parents was disappointed (them being catholic) but what mattered most is my son and my happiness.

and even if you lose your right to be here if you leave him, surely life back home is much better than what you got going on here.

hope you think things over and find that you are better off without him. goodluck!

[benb]

some women are just into abusive relationship, but just in case these questions ever crossed her mind:

there are always people who help abused women, you will be taken cared of by charities that deal with people in situations like yours.

what do you do??? you start a new life! you bf is not the beginning, middle and end of yours.

your family is not in your situation so they do not know how hard it gets, when i got divorced from my first husband 11 years ago my parents was disappointed (them being catholic) but what mattered most is my son and my happiness.

and even if you lose your right to be here if you leave him, surely life back home is much better than what you got going on here.

hope you think things over and find that you are better off without him. goodluck!

Well Said! Good advise