Quote Originally Posted by maria_and_matt View Post
some women are just into abusive relationship, but just in case these questions ever crossed her mind:

there are always people who help abused women, you will be taken cared of by charities that deal with people in situations like yours.

what do you do??? you start a new life! you bf is not the beginning, middle and end of yours.

your family is not in your situation so they do not know how hard it gets, when i got divorced from my first husband 11 years ago my parents was disappointed (them being catholic) but what mattered most is my son and my happiness.

and even if you lose your right to be here if you leave him, surely life back home is much better than what you got going on here.

hope you think things over and find that you are better off without him. goodluck!
Well Said! Good advise