Quote Originally Posted by traveller View Post
are u saying that he is not capable of change?
and that he is going to be like that no matter which girl he is going to end up with in the long run?
 Most of the case YES he will not going to change.
also please consider that he is very charming so im sure he will get girls through the internet..but as time passes by thats when he shows his true colors
 It is not of your concern anymore if he is capable to allure all the girls in internet once you get rid of him.

also if he does not love me? then would he able to love another and change into a better person?
He doesn't love you. If he does then you would paint us a whole different story. Again, it is not of your concern anymore if he will change in a better person once you dump him.

Maybe you like to be treated bad and you like to feel pity for other people but not of yourself.

Reading your story has not given me any good hint of why you love this guy. Instead, all I read is all your worries about what if and what not. He chat with every woman, he do this and that and yet you still love him. For me, that sounds more like of a very insecure person. If you think that you deserve a better guy than him then don't waste your precious time, just get rid of him.