well on that occasion i didnt want to dance. she was a bit drunk at the disco, i'm not a dancer so declined. She said i showed her up in front of everyone else by not dancing with her. She got stroppy and decided we should go home. she didnt go for our motor, but instead walked off to a tricycle.
i got on our motor and went home alone, then she tried to slam the gate on me and the bike when i got there. you know the rest, well parts of it. i wont go into it all its too depressing to think about.
apparently i should have run after her to ask her to ride home with me. ermm it's not my way to run after stroppy women, if she wanted to behave that way, it's up to her. I'm not into chasing drama queens. I think if i say i don't feel comfortable to dance at that time, thats it. I'm not a dancer, i never was and i rarely try it. I'm 45 i look
when i try to look 20 on the dance floor.
In the KTV bar when i had a few too many among friends i can try, but in a disco surrounded by youngsters and pro dancers, i didnt feel like making a pillock of myself. I didnt deserve being locked out or getting some things smashed up. But thats just my opinion, no doubt someone will tell me otherwise