Bisexuality etc

[bornatbirth]

where exactly is girls gone wild in the philipines?

i have been there over 5 times and never seen a girls bar,i guess im not looking hard enough?

my wife was a 31 year old virgin before i met her,even asking her what sexual fantasies she as and what turns her on is like getting blood out of a stone,so how your gf is telling you shes interested in other girls amazes me!

what replys are you expecting from this forum,i dont think anyone here can relate to what you are saying?

im not sure i should shout YESSS A 3 SOME and get my camera and film it and enjoy myself or feel sorry for you?

maybe after getting there in the USA she can express herself without her family watching her and wants to let her hair down!

[USA]

where exactly is girls gone wild in the philipines?

i have been there over 5 times and never seen a girls bar,i guess im not looking hard enough?

my wife was a 31 year old virgin before i met her,even asking her what sexual fantasies she as and what turns her on is like getting blood out of a stone,so how your gf is telling you shes interested in other girls amazes me!

what replys are you expecting from this forum,i dont think anyone here can relate to what you are saying?

im not sure i should shout YESSS A 3 SOME and get my camera and film it and enjoy myself or feel sorry for you?

maybe after getting there in the USA she can express herself without her family watching her and wants to let her hair down!

1."GGW" or however you want to put it, is the Philippines reality today (IMO) especially for the youth today. You can call it whatever you want. But the culture is changing. Just the little things, ya know? Like for example if you get an 18 yr old girl in the Phil to tell the truth if she has ever seen oral sex performed- well sure she has, you just get on the internet- duh!

2 A girls bar? Who said anything about a girls bar or anything like? I`m talking about the actual sex lives of everyday people in the Phil. Not any kind of "for sale" or "trash" if you will. And thats my whole point. The reality is hidden, its not out in the open. THATS MY POINT

3 OK she was a 31 yr old virgin. Point is, stories like that are common in the Phil. The reality of the situtation is much different. And by the way my GF was very shy with me. It was hard to get her to talk to me even at first.
Everything related to (dont ya say it!) sex was "never done" before and lets not talk about. Very conservative.
It took a long time to get her to talk even a little about such things. Must have depended on my reactions. She slowly opened up.
Ahhh... I`m gonna guess with some men she NEVER would have. But she would have loved them and lied to them for own good. What else could she do perhaps? I`m just putting myself in a womens shoes as best I can (ouch! not very good fit!)

4 I`m not expecting any kind of reply in particular. I already made that point earlier.
So not many here can relate to what I`m saying? No one can relate to a sex outside the relationship story?
Ok, my girl went out to the mall last weekend and and picked up some kind of special Filipina they dont have in the Phil because they ALL moved away?
No bud, they are all over they place. No, they dont have a sign hanging on them to let you know.

5 I`m kind of feeling sorry for myself right now.

[USA]

Well they say ignorance is bliss, but I`ve just never been able to see it that way.
I just got off the phone with her (# who knows how many for today, as always) And she let me talk to another Filipina looking for a BF( the one she hooked up with last weekend shes still talking to, but nothing panned out YET). She went to the next mall further away from her house to shop and met 3 Filipina there. And so she told the girls she looking for a friend and she exchanged Friendster accounts with one of them. These 3 Filipina I guess are down with having a friend like that, just like the other 2 were last weekend.

So- she just got there a few weeks ago. She runs out last weekend to the closest mall to her and meets 2 Filipina flirts them and gets a number. She runs out this weekend to the next mall further away (keep in mind this is out in the suburbs at that, not the city) and meets 3 Filipina and flirts them and gets a Friendster. (I know she isnt making this up I`m talking to these women about it also) So I`m going to have to guess this kind of thing going on isn`t exactly unusual.
Again, I have no idea. I`m just guessing. But right now it seems to me that the only thing unusual about any of this may be the part when she says something like- "oh let me call my BF and let you talk to him- he knows"

[Jay&Zobel]

Well they say ignorance is bliss, but I`ve just never been able to see it that way.
I just got off the phone with her (# who knows how many for today, as always) And she let me talk to another Filipina looking for a BF( the one she hooked up with last weekend shes still talking to, but nothing panned out YET). She went to the next mall further away from her house to shop and met 3 Filipina there. And so she told the girls she looking for a friend and she exchanged Friendster accounts with one of them. These 3 Filipina I guess are down with having a friend like that, just like the other 2 were last weekend.

So- she just got there a few weeks ago. She runs out last weekend to the closest mall to her and meets 2 Filipina flirts them and gets a number. She runs out this weekend to the next mall further away (keep in mind this is out in the suburbs at that, not the city) and meets 3 Filipina and flirts them and gets a Friendster. (I know she isnt making this up I`m talking to these women about it also) So I`m going to have to guess this kind of thing going on isn`t exactly unusual.
Again, I have no idea. I`m just guessing. But right now it seems to me that the only thing unusual about any of this may be the part when she says something like- "oh let me call my BF and let you talk to him- he knows"

This is really unusual case tbh... Plus also it seemed that you do not want her attention to be taken away from you but is happening... She is too busy with her "mates"

Maybe ask her like:

WOULD YOU LIKE THIS RELATIONSHIP TO GO ANY FURTHER?
Do you love me?
Choose? Me or your girls?

Ask the 4 w's
W hat
W hy
W hen
H ow

I am sure you know your girl more than we do... Best of luck mate!

[aromulus]

Ask the 4 w's
W hat
W hy
W hen
H ow

!

[Jay&Zobel]

This is really unusual case tbh... Plus also it seemed that you do not want her attention to be taken away from you but is happening... She is too busy with her "mates"

Maybe ask her like:

WOULD YOU LIKE THIS RELATIONSHIP TO GO ANY FURTHER?
Do you love me?
Choose? Me or your girls?

Ask the 4 w's
W hat
W hy
W hen
H ow

I am sure you know your girl more than we do... Best of luck mate!

whehehe...

Ask the girl using the 4 W's

What ? - What would you like to achieve in this relationship? What do you like? What do I like from You?

Why ? - Why do you need other girls? Why am I not enough for you? Why are you choosing this type of relationship?

When ? - When did you start being a bisexual? When would you like to end yor relationship with others? When will you start thinking about US - Just U & ME? When will I have you TIME only your time?

How ? - How would you like your life to be? How will it make you happy? How will you make me happy? How will i make you happy? How will i make you stop thinking about them?


hehehehe... Q's like those... Just Ask... there is nothing harm from asking... Atleast you will know from her directly... you will know the answers...