Quote Originally Posted by itsme_iye View Post
This situation is not so much the case in more developed countries as it is in less developed countries. However, in my opinion, generally the main reason why young girls go for older men is because there is a perception and some truth to the thought that older men are established and therefore, life would be secure.

In an environment where there are not as many options to consider as far as employment, health care, education, and daily living, young girls who are concerned about securing their future or maybe even frustrated about the lack of alternatives that are available to them in the society, tend to seek both love and security by being with older men. I use "older" not old as we have not provided a definition of how young is young and how old is old.
well said

but when i you see guys in there 60s with young girls,im thinking what exactly are they going to talk about?

i personally feel there shouldnt be such a "HUGE" age gap,so at least they have something in common and can plan on having a family and life together and i feel its quite selfish to be so much older and marry a girl far younger because at some point when he dies she will be relatively young and with a life to live?