Advice please!

[Eljohno]

I am going to the Philippines in about 4 weeks - 25th feb. I booked the flight on an impulse [sod all work, manky weather,why not!] I am only writing to ladies recently, but I am hoping to meet several, and see how we get on once we meet in person, because I'm not sure how well you can get to know someone by letters, untill you meet up. However, I did mention to one lady that I was writing to others, and she has since stopped writing to me. I thought I was being honest, and not letting her build her hopes too soon.

My question is, should I not say anything to any of the other ones I'm writing to? [which feels a bit sneaky to me] I can understand that a woman would prefer someone was coming to see them only, but I'm not at that stage yet! I'm a novice at this internet dating!

Any thoughts or advice gratefully received!

Paul

Paul,

i hope you have done your homework on here about the Philippines and how easy it can be to part with money and allow some beautiful girls to take advantage of you..

I hope everything works out.

What part of the Philippines are you going to?

I use another forum sometimes with guys from mainly USA and some from the UK who live there and could help you out when you arrive if you need it..

I think its best not telling the other girls about each other.

[PeterB]

... part with money and allow some beautiful girls to take advantage of you.

Sounds good to me!