Quote Originally Posted by charlwill View Post
Oh dear, oh dear. It is very sad. Bringing another woman to his house while your friend is living in his place right now? Question, why did he do that? Do they have relationship or your friend is only assuming that they have relationship?
Hi Cha! I think they've gone past the point of 'assumptions' with regards to their relationship, having been together for a year, having done stuffs that only consenting adults do, by doing that I think they've both behaved as if there was a mature relationship going on between them. What's their set-up? That, I don't know. But their conduct showed that they have both construed into a relationship. Now, not all relationships have happy endings we all know that and I am not critical about their relatioship going sour. Neither am I critical if Mr. X doesn't want her anymore, it's his feelings and it's way beyond my control or my friend's control. The only thing in question is, why could he not sit down with her and reason with her in a mature manner as all respected, reasonable adults do when a relationship is heading nowhere? My friend is a grown, level headed person I am sure she will understand but taking a woman into his bed whilst she is there in the next room? That I believe is beyond any reasonable person's comprehension. Maybe it's just the Brits' typical way of ending a relationship? If so, I'm scared...very, very scared for every Filipina who is in a relationship with a Brit including myself but God forbid, I still have faith in British men and I do know it's not about being British.

Cheers friends and thanks for listening to my laments. As you can see I am deeply hurt for my friend but she is now recovering and I'm sure she'll be alright.