Devastated - Need advice

[joebloggs]

so there is some hope then sim, looks like it wasn't the obvious reason of a b/f but family pressure, when my mother in law found out her daughter was getting serious with a whitey a got a letter from her mom politely warning me to leave her alone....

it's easy for others to say walk away, unless you've been in that situation yourself, then it's not so easy, and if you can walk away, then she probably didn't mean as much to you as you thought.

that's why i always say keep asking until she breaks if you have to, find the real reason, might not be the reason what you and others think it was or the reason she originally told you..

good luck, and if she does mean so much to you, don't give up, no matter what problems get in your way, I didn't , and after been married more than 5yrs, or 6yrs , we've got little joe, a grand daughter and married life is better than ever

[LEAHnew]

so there is some hope then sim, looks like it wasn't the obvious reason of a b/f but family pressure, when my mother in law found out her daughter was getting serious with a whitey a got a letter from her mom politely warning me to leave her alone....

it's easy for others to say walk away, unless you've been in that situation yourself, then it's not so easy, and if you can walk away, then she probably didn't mean as much to you as you thought.

that's why i always say keep asking until she breaks if you have to, find the real reason, might not be the reason what you and others think it was or the reason she originally told you..

good luck, and if she does mean so much to you, don't give up, no matter what problems get in your way, I didn't , and after been married more than 5yrs, or 6yrs , we've got little joe, a grand daughter and married life is better than ever

sounds familiar

I agree to Joe goodluck Sim I hope it will sorted out soon

[joebloggs]

sounds familiar

I agree to Joe goodluck Sim I hope it will sorted out soon

i still have the letter somewhere , basically it said that she didn't want her daughter to get hurt in anyway. i wrote her a letter back saying i wasn't a scouser

[LEAHnew]

i still have the letter somewhere , basically it said that she didn't want her daughter to get hurt in anyway. i wrote her a letter back saying i wasn't a scouser

He's a brummie yummy

cheers Joe

[Sim11UK]

Hi everyone out there in e-land

We've just spent the last 4 hours online together.
I'm afraid it's not a happy ending, but it's an amicable split.
Her family won out in the end.

There is no other b/f, she has just bowed to family pressure. I'm very sad at this, but she seems reasonably upbeat.

I've no reason to dis-believe her. She says she loves me, but the family is just too strong.

We talked about all the great places, we'd been to...Feeding the fish, whilst snorkelling off Boracay, Camiguin Island, her worrying about Mt. Hibok Hibok erupting, candlelit meals on the beach on Panglao Island etc. etc.
In otherwords, there was a lot of happy memories & laughs.
I have to say, I've been to some fantastic places, with a beautiful woman...Was just hoping it would carry on, oh well, such is life.

I'm just glad, we managed to get to do all this online, because it has certainly put my mind at rest. There is nothing worse, than being left in the dark & having no real closure.

...So it's time to move on.

I'd just like to thank everyone on this forum, for all the help given sorry to those I haven't replied to personally & a big thank you to those who sent PM's. Very much appreciated.

Joe I'm glad you managed to win your mother in law over. Manc. power I guess.

I shall carry on looking in on the forum, as there are some good people here.

Thanks

Simon



P.S. The guy she will be marrying, wont be getting any tsup tsup.