splitting up

[jocelyn77]

Thank you for your replies. i am aware of the problem i have with my intention of going back to England but it's the only option I can think of so I can work and get paid properly to support my child, be with my child and for my child to have what she is rightfully entitled for. If that option is not possible then I will have to work abroad(obviously not in England) and be away from my child til I save enough money to start a business here or if given a better option might as well bring my child to wherever that country will be. But I have never thought of or never and will never ever consider the option of giving up my child for adoption. I'm going through a very difficult time but I believe, things will be ok for me and my child.

[darren-b]

Thank you for your replies. i am aware of the problem i have with my intention of going back to England but it's the only option I can think of so I can work and get paid properly to support my child, be with my child and for my child to have what she is rightfully entitled for. If that option is not possible then I will have to work abroad(obviously not in England) and be away from my child til I save enough money to start a business here or if given a better option might as well bring my child to wherever that country will be. But I have never thought of or never and will never ever consider the option of giving up my child for adoption. I'm going through a very difficult time but I believe, things will be ok for me and my child.

Basically you need to forget about the trying to use your child to get to England so that you can work, it just isn't an option. There are only two ways you can get to England and legally work - with your husband (which doesn't appear to be an option) or if you can get a work permit (or maybe student visa) in your own right.