I understand that you were thinking of going there, in december, and also understand thet you are looking to get married in june this year.....
What you haven't said is wether you actually have been and visited her....
And what put all your original fears to rest....
Don't get me wrong, I am very pleased for you but it seems I must have missed a few posts..
Don't forget to fetch loads of chocolate when you go....Instantly you will be called "Tito" Dave.....