Age gap: a big deal or not??

[somebody]

Age gap isn't really an issue... It's the personality and compatibility.... Hubby is older than me by number but never i felt that he really is older . We are very much compatible we both don't enjoy going out or hanging out with friends (bar, staying out late night). Don't get me wrong we do have friends... I guess woman are more matured than thier age by nature (or it's just Pinays). It's shouldn't make any difference as long as you have the same interest, you both laugh at the same things and most of all you LOVE EACH OTHER.

An important point.

It is how old the two of you actually are rather than in time on this planet.

If your both happy and content to do the same things at the same pace, or can leave at least part seperate lives so you can partake of your different intrests and what not.

Seen big age gaps in westen relationships but again they have similar lifestyles or understanding that they have differnt intrests and its not an issue.

Seen loads of old blokes of all backgrounds in places where you know they would never go of their own accord Some look relaxed with it as its for their loved ones benefit. Others look like they need to call the smartians

Same with Ladies some will tolerate or even enjoy football or the visit to the DIY shed others would rather be anywhere else.


Defintely no one size fits all with this subject.

I think all involved in these relationships need to also bear in mind if one is younger, is the possibilty will they later on have someform of "mid life crisis".

Seen a few people from varying backgrounds. Who had to grow up fast and have responsbilty when fairly young. Who later on needed new experiences,something diffrent, or simply wanted to party. Plenty of others seem to chug along though.

Yes I can think examples of some pinays who came over to the UK and married had kids at a young age, the husbands age varied in relation to the ladys some almost the same, others older. Some of these have shall we say acted as if in their teens/twenties..

[aposhark]

Now I am developing a relation with a widow who is 50, so just four years younger who came on a dating site as I understand some of her friends found foreign husbands and are happy that way and anyway she says most Filipinos her age are interested in much younger girls...

Four years age difference. THAT'S disgusting

[cheesewiz]

[SIZE=4]Another "age gap" thread.............

may be, this is the best place to get a good advice

[Tawi2]

Gimmee some advice then "Dear Cheese"(instead of Dear Deidre,the agony aunt)I am 44(but feel 55) should I get a woman older?Younger?Or roughly the same?

[trader dave]

Gimmee some advice then "Dear Cheese"(instead of Dear Deidre,the agony aunt)I am 44(but feel 55) should I get a woman older?Younger?Or roughly the same?

quite simple young man do YOU WANT to feel 22 or 55

i remember someone asking bruce forsyth [ whats the secret to keeping young --his reply HAVING A YOUNG WIFE

[Tawi2]

Bruccies wife is a STUNNER I saw her once in Weybridge,he doesnt live so far away,she had her pinay maid with her.I think we would all like to feel 22 rather than 55? But what about many a good tune played on an old fiddle? Besides,older women have greater character,I like character rather than a sexy body to be honest

[pacificelectric]

Thanks for your input.. And I am glad to say that Diana just wrote me to advise me she was willing to engage in a relation with me and it seems probable I will visit her in Davao some time...

[Tawi2]

Good man pacific,Davao is great,probably the safest philippine city,certainly the cleanest,excellent place,take her to Samal for a really good day out

[Mrs.JMajor]

Cant argue with you Tawi,i love the background.....as well as the matured one....Go,go,go,pacific

[Tawi2]

We all want a happy ending to our individual stories,get yourself over pacific,life is all about experiences,hopefully you and this lady click she has nice eyes,theres a twinkle in them

[trader dave]

yes best of luck pacific as they say davao is a very nice place

and have to agree with the point about fiddles

it must be a little chilly where yr lady is as she has the hat and shawl on but not chilly for us

[tiger@tigress]

We all want a happy ending to our individual stories,get yourself over pacific,life is all about experiences,hopefully you and this lady click she has nice eyes,theres a twinkle in them

Your right... we dont know whats life ahead....

[cheesewiz]

Gimmee some advice then "Dear Cheese"(instead of Dear Deidre,the agony aunt)I am 44(but feel 55) should I get a woman older?Younger?Or roughly the same?

go for YOUNGER one, mid 20's for sure its not hard for you to find one, you have such a good sense of humour

[cheesewiz]

Thanks for your input.. And I am glad to say that Diana just wrote me to advise me she was willing to engage in a relation with me and it seems probable I will visit her in Davao some time...

visit her soon so you'll know if she fits the bill. Good luck

[Tawi2]

go for YOUNGER one, mid 20's for sure its not hard for you to find one, you have such a good sense of humour

No mid 20's for me cheese I like mature cheese maybe 40

[cheesewiz]

No mid 20's for me cheese I like mature cheese maybe 40

40 year old matured cheese..go for it

[Tawi2]

I am trying my best its got to be extra-strong cheddar though,nothing worse than a mild cheese

[Jenky]

When I first met my wife I was aged 39 and she was 25 and all that I can personally say is that I considered myself close to being a cradle snatcher. Everybody is different and true love comes in many disguises, it is for your own conscience to decide what is right or wrong. We went on to have a daughter who is now aged five. When she grows up if she brings home a boyfriend who was in my age group I will hit him with my walking stick!!!

[trader dave]

i like my mature cheddar

but i also like fresh spring chicken

[aromulus]

When I first met my wife I was aged 39 and she was 25 and all that I can personally say is that I considered myself close to being a cradle snatcher. Everybody is different and true love comes in many disguises, it is for your own conscience to decide what is right or wrong. We went on to have a daughter who is now aged five. When she grows up if she brings home a boyfriend who was in my age group I will hit him with my walking stick!!!

How about her being a "coffin robber"....

[bornatbirth]

Four years age difference. THAT'S disgusting

just 4 years?

theres 6 years between me and my wife im beginning to feel its such a big gap

[joebloggs]

just 4 years?

theres 6 years between me and my wife im beginning to feel its such a big gap

same with me, 6yrs older than the misses, but shes the one moaning about her knees going and old age

maybe i need a newer model

[bornatbirth]

maybe you should discuss it with her?

[joebloggs]

maybe you should discuss it with her?

i have, i suggested can we get a young french maid

but all i got was



women you just can't please them

[bornatbirth]

i told my wife if we got a maid she will be young and pretty?

my wife said she will get an old ugly maid!

[Tawi2]

I know a Swiss guy living in Pinas born,he had two maids,both sisters,and employed their mum also,over a period of time he slept with them all Theres a lot to be said for employing an older plain looking woman,temptation is a bitch

[Tish]

i told my wife if we got a maid she will be young and pretty?

my wife said she will get an old ugly maid!

Me too, I'll get an old ugly maid Even though hubby says he can't keep up with the one he's got!

Tish

[bornatbirth]

Thanks for your input.. And I am glad to say that Diana just wrote me to advise me she was willing to engage in a relation with me and it seems probable I will visit her in Davao some time...

she looks very nice,so treat her nice and you will get more back?

and if shes willing to get to know you better... then i think she may already like you

[Sophie]

I know a Swiss guy living in Pinas born,he had two maids,both sisters,and employed their mum also,over a period of time he slept with them all

[Tawi2]

I did actually ask him when he was going to try and seduce the father