Are you ready to fall inlove?

[Strangemikan]

Hi Sophie, Hi Tawi2!

This isn't like a gender war or anything similar, right?

I respect Tawi2's opinion, but then there are some cases in this life, or in somebody's life, that opinions like that may not fit.

There are two things I am very sure about:

1. Nothing is constant, everything is changing. What I feel for my friend/boss right now will eventually fade, just like everything else. Of course, I will always remember how I feel about him, but that would only become a memory. I don't feel resentful that he can't be mine. Believe it or not, I have accepted it and I am happy for him. I was just trying to find what could make me happy too. And I don't think there is anything wrong with that.

2. Everything is possible. Heh...that's the main reason why I posted here. I am taking my chances. See what will happen. Of course, love will come my way, but that doesn't mean I should stop there right? It's a free world. And its full of possibilities. I might not get what I want, or what I expected, what's more important to me, is that I tried.

[Sophie]

Hi Sophie, Hi Tawi2!

This isn't like a gender war or anything similar, right?

I respect Tawi2's opinion, but then there are some cases in this life, or in somebody's life, that opinions like that may not fit.

There are two things I am very sure about:

1. Nothing is constant, everything is changing. What I feel for my friend/boss right now will eventually fade, just like everything else. Of course, I will always remember how I feel about him, but that would only become a memory. I don't feel resentful that he can't be mine. Believe it or not, I have accepted it and I am happy for him. I was just trying to find what could make me happy too. And I don't think there is anything wrong with that.

2. Everything is possible. Heh...that's the main reason why I posted here. I am taking my chances. See what will happen. Of course, love will come my way, but that doesn't mean I should stop there right? It's a free world. And its full of possibilities. I might not get what I want, or what I expected, what's more important to me, is that I tried.

I totally agree mikan Nothing wrong with pursuing your own happiness. The sooner you find new love, the better. Just make sure that when you get into a new relationship, you are completely over him and 100% emotionally detached from him. You don't want the new guy to feel like he is just "filling up a hole" so to speak, or in our language - "panakip butas" lang.
I wish you all the best in your quest to finding new love and hopefully you find the "one" soon

[Tawi2]

You just made me spit a mouthfull of coffee on my keyboard Sophie
"You don't want the new guy to feel he is just "filling up a hole" so to speak" Double entendre
Its like "Namamangka sa dalawa ilog"but one is physical one is mental But the mental one is pagmamahal na hindi tinubsan

[Sophie]

You just made me spit a mouthfull of coffee on my keyboard Sophie
"You don't want the new guy to feel he is just "filling up a hole" so to speak" Double entendre
Its like "Namamangka sa dalawa ilog"but one is physical one is mental But the mental one is pagmamahal na hindi tinubsan

LOL I wish your keyboard well tawi2
Anyway, it's more like the new guy's role is filling up the gap and the void that was brought about by the lost love and the love that can never be.......
But then again, for some people, the quickest way to get over someone is through someone else ( although i don't agree with that).
While others deal with it on their own and totally let go of the person first before jumping into a new relationship.
I guess people have different ways of coping...........to each his own.

[Tawi2]

Ahhhh,you meant gap or void?Sorry,when you said filling a hole I took it literally

[Sophie]

Sorry,when you said filling a hole I took it literally

hahahahaha, i had a feeling you would would

[Florge]

1. .... What I feel for my friend/boss right now will eventually fade, just like everything else.

Should you let it fade first before entering into a serious relationship?

[Mrs Daddy]

It's a free world. And its full of possibilities. I might not get what I want, or what I expected, what's more important to me, is that I tried.

very well said gurlgo for it and all the best