i only introduced him to the family when we're really sure of each other and there were marriage plans that were discussed (although these stuff were discussed online)

bec i dont want the family to expect too much and what if we decided to change our minds?

...no pressure from both sides and no emotional blackmails from family as they tend to be overly supportive and protective...

where what other ppl think really seems to matters most than what i say personally.
