Quote Originally Posted by maria_and_matt View Post
i have always lived by the golden rule.. do not do unto others what you do not want others to do unto you!

i have always been good at ignoring gossip, but lately it has been getting on my nerves. filipinas especially have this habit of talking behind my back.. if i work they gossip that i am too poor so my husband sent me to work, if i dont work they say i am lazy!!!
a good friend told me that others are just jealous, jealous of what??? it seems that filipinas wherever they are in the world still gossip and envious of others,, if they see others with better lives they will pull down (crab mentality!) with me i do not care what you have, what house you have or what car you drive, what matters is the person that you are
I feel bad for what you're going through but for some reason,
what you just shared here sort of made me feel glad that there's no filipinas around my area, lol
And funny coz i was trying so hard to look for one here as i thought it would be nice to have some filipina friends nearby
But after reading what you just shared, i think i'm a bit skeptical now about the idea...
However, i still believe not all filipinas are like that,
i'm sure there are a few level headed, sensible, mature and good-natured filipinas left out there....
We just have to be very careful and assertive in choosing who we befriends with
and stick with the good ones and stay away from the bad ones...