5 years is not too long,its a lot better than the speed-daters who meet someone online and instantly pledge eternal love,race off to pinas and are married or engaged within 6-9 months of first meeting Everyone has their own speed,if he is visiting you once or twice a year,your in daily contact and your still together after 5 years thats fine so long as your both comfortable with it right?
A 5-year relationship is just fine, but a 5 year LONG DISTANCE relationship is another story............
Personally, a maximum of 3 years for a long distance relationship is enough for me.....
But that's just me, just an opinion
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