WOW!
Can some of you guys try actually try supporting Pumpkin here!. Some of you are so negative and judgemental...straight away "aromulus" jumps to the conclusion that Pumpkins hubby may "dump" her so to be careful ect as his first marriage to a Filipina ended so soon (less thn 2 years)...but why do you assume the failure of this marriage was down to him?, who is to say he was not the victim?, maybe his ex used him purely for a visa as sadly these cases do still sometimes exist...good & bad everywhere so easy to assume the Brit guy is the villain divorcing so soon his poor Filipina wife but the fact is it may well be the other way around...would some of you think and react the same way if the ex-wife was British??...it seems strange to me that a fair few guys on here are on 2nd marriage having been married-divorced to a British woman previously and this is ok, no need to set those alarm bells ringing ect and yet this guy just cause his ex is Filipina and marriage broke down so soon well...some of you seemed to have put 2 and 2 together and come up with 5!!...further more Pumpkin already states that the ex had another guy and so would seem to have cheated and left her hubby for her lover so what should the guy do? stay legally married to her just because the marriage is less than 2 years old??...if he has since gone on to meet Pumpkin and find happiness whilst his divorce is going through then good luck to him..."Tawi" and i know these threads are often the source of humour & jest but your comment of Pumpkins hubby changing his wife more often than his socks is at best insensitive & crass...how does that make Pumpkin feel reading that about her hubby??...shame on you...again i refer back to points made above...if his ex cheated and left him then what was he to do?, would you make such remarks if the guys ex was British and the marriage had lasted say 5 years??...would he then be "changing wives like he changes socks" ??...having a joke is one thing but posting such comments for Pumpkin to read is thoughtless and could be hurtful...maybe some of you need to think a little before you rush to post...well done Lady J for a more balanced response!...good luck to you and your hubby Pumpkin, as long as you have done everything in the correct manner and legally as it appears you have then you should have no problems...just be honest within your application and supply as much evidence as possible to ECO and god willing within a few months you will be together!.
