whats my chance of long term success??

[aposhark]

I'am here again looking for possible pitfalls in my masterplan. At this stage i am chatting with a young woman who has a child shes 23 and i'am 42. Shes totaly beautiful and i'am at best mr average. I can live with the family support thing to a certain degree. I would treat her very well when she comes to the uk, treat her kid as my own, "I cant have kids" but this would be sorted at the beggining.

Obviously i we think we have fallen in love get married, shes from what i can see is from a decent familly, shes not the bar girl type ect ect,,

From what you members have learned about mixed couples in my possible cinario, and taking into account the girl is very beautiful, and the man is not rich, what would be a guestimate of long term success???

I hope that made sence?

The difference in years is greater in my marriage and my wife is a beautiful Filipina. We are both very happy, except for her "tampo" at times
It is how you both try to keep the relationship going when you are finally together that counts.
Getting her visa is a difficult process but if you both love each other, anything can be achieved in life.
What you put in is often what you get out

[aromulus]

The difference in years is greater in my marriage and my wife is a beautiful Filipina. We are both very happy, except for her "tampo" at times

I did warn you.......

What you put in is often what you get out

Unless she developed a set of dentures........

[aposhark]

I did warn you.......

Looks like no man is exempt from this at times, the 1% tampo is made up for by the 99% bliss.........but it doesn't feel like it at the time.

[IainBusby]

Looks like no man is exempt from this at times, the 1% tampo is made up for by the 99% bliss.........but it doesn't feel like it at the time.

Has no one told you, tampos are subject to an exponential growth rate, 1% in the first year, 2% in the second year, 4% in the third year, 8% in the fourth year etc etc. Of course this projection only holds true if your lucky enough to get away with 1% in the first year, if you start off with 3 or 4% in the first year, well....... just do the maths.

Iain.

[trader dave]

Has no one told you, tampos are subject to an exponential growth rate, 1% in the first year, 2% in the second year, 4% in the third year, 8% in the fourth year etc etc. Of course this projection only holds true if your lucky enough to get away with 1% in the first year, if you start off with 3 or 4% in the first year, well....... just do the maths.

Iain.

TAMPO tell me about it

as regards to the child having a father they are not always on the birth certificate ....... FATHER UNKNOWN

[IainBusby]

as regards to the child having a father they are not always on the birth certificate ....... FATHER UNKNOWN

If that's the case, as it was with my step-daughter, then it's not usually a problem.

[trader dave]

If that's the case, as it was with my step-daughter, then it's not usually a problem.

it was a good move by MRS T to do just that its a pity they never spelt her name correctly as now we have to pay to have it corrected