More on Jennifer and Michaels marrage problems

[JimOttley]

Not sure he should divorce her unless he really wants to, if he divorces her she is free to remarry and that is like giving her a present, it effectively gives her the chance to do this all over again with someone else!


Jim

[Ji&Ma]

Not sure he should divorce her unless he really wants to, if he divorces her she is free to remarry and that is like giving her a present, it effectively gives her the chance to do this all over again with someone else!


Jim

Yeah, I can see your point Jim, but on the other hand shall I find myself in the same situation as Mick I would start all the proceedings (visa cancellation, anullment etc...) as quickly as possible...
Heads up Mick, wish you more luck next time

[Northerner]

Not sure he should divorce her unless he really wants to, if he divorces her she is free to remarry and that is like giving her a present, it effectively gives her the chance to do this all over again with someone else!


Jim

Now that sounds Evil! But in a way I like it!!

Cancelling her visa and not divorcing her! Hmmmm.. That could cause her bother in the future.

[somebody]

Now that sounds Evil! But in a way I like it!!

Cancelling her visa and not divorcing her! Hmmmm.. That could cause her bother in the future.

Indeed would be a shame

[mickcant]

Not sure he should divorce her unless he really wants to, if he divorces her she is free to remarry and that is like giving her a present, it effectively gives her the chance to do this all over again with someone else!


Jim

Hi Jim and all,
I do not want to divrce her for that very reason, it seems that could me a sort of revenge with the way she has treated me, but I was woried about her claming support from me, but as somone else said once she has spent the money she took with her, she would most likly not be able to pay for a lawer.
She has had enough money from me.
Thanks Mick.

[joebloggs]

Hi Jim and all,
I do not want to divrce her for that very reason, it seems that could me a sort of revenge with the way she has treated me,

but if you do meet someone else in the future, you'll have to go thru the divorce/annulment process which could take many months which may cause problems with any future relationship, and you would be cutting ties with her for good, so you can move on and be free again

[JimOttley]

but if you do meet someone else in the future, you'll have to go thru the divorce/annulment process which could take many months which may cause problems with any future relationship, and you would be cutting ties with her for good, so you can move on and be free again

That's a fair point Joe, there is also the issue of inheritance not sure how easy it is to disinherit a wife in English law


Jim

[liane]

Hi Mick, I am glad to hear from you again. We were wondering how you were doing after what happened to you.
It would be better not to have any contact with her, she took advantage of you and used you for her own benefit. You don't deserved someone like her. It was too sad to learn that after you gone through just to be with her this was what you got- you even spent too much money.
Anyway hope you be better soon.

[JimOttley]

Hi Jim and all,
I do not want to divrce her for that very reason, it seems that could me a sort of revenge with the way she has treated me, but I was woried about her claming support from me, but as somone else said once she has spent the money she took with her, she would most likly not be able to pay for a lawer.
She has had enough money from me.
Thanks Mick.

She would have a hard time taking any action from that distance Mick.

Even in cases where there are children the Child Support Agency in the UK will not accept an application for a child living abroad.

Would cost her a fortune to pursue you, best if you change your phone numbers and get a new email address, yahoo account etc.

And of course as others have said get her Visa cancelled!

Hope you get through this sir you have had a rough time!


Jim