my dad married a Filipina, advice from British men please!

[bornatbirth]

So I used to just turn up unnannounced and then she would go into the bedroom and not come out until I'd left

....but can't get any time alone with him, when we talk to him she interrupts all the time.....

So which is it? You can't have it both ways

If there is a problem, is not the woman's ethnicity, it's her personality.

quite true

if you go there to visit and she goes to the bedroom,then your alone

you know my wife will do all she can for any member of my family and im sure many other filipinas will do too!

why not just talk to your father and tell him your problems,have you heard of the jeremy klye show..go on there...but if you do can you let us know,so we can all watch

[darren-b]

So I used to just turn up unnannounced and then she would go into the bedroom and not come out until I'd left

....but can't get any time alone with him, when we talk to him she interrupts all the time.....

So which is it? You can't have it both ways

if you go there to visit and she goes to the bedroom,then your alone

The way I read it was the hiding in the bedroom was in the past, but now (since he is ill) she won't leave his side.

Maybe now scared of him being persuaded to change his will in favour of his children/grandchildren?