i need help!!

[pennybarry]

Dear Maria,

Please don’t let menopause as your excuse. I have met many friends who are in their menopause and they still the same and same person after menopause.

Please don't be offended if I share you my Filipina friends in EU. I met a Filipina wife there who is a jealous wife really. She always nag and threat her husband with a bolo. Her husband loves her and decided to send her to psychologist for a therapy. She did change for better and I couldn’t believe it. Then, I met a german friend, his wife screwed around and he simply go to psychologist for a psychotherapy and he sounds good better and better. I asked my friends there, if it is just ok if they will have their wife and husband for a therapy? They said, it’s normal in EU as it’s help really.

In the Philippines, if you are under psycho-therapy, they think bad against you. But I have learned in Europe that it is just fine and normal if you feel too much disappointment, distress, bored etc. I don’t want to advise you to go for it but if this will help and I am sure it will, I will do it.

Sometimes, our best enemy is our self, not the other people.
With your passport, I have met many Filipinas who wish to apply British passport, but their problem is money and they can’t afford it. You are so lucky indeed.

I envy you having a new car and you can drive. That’s one thing I should learn in the future! I want a smart car!!!!

We love you Maria!

[maria_and_matt]

Dear Maria,

Please don’t let menopause as your excuse. I have met many friends who are in their menopause and they still the same and same person after menopause.

Please don't be offended if I share you my Filipina friends in EU. I met a Filipina wife there who is a jealous wife really. She always nag and threat her husband with a bolo. Her husband loves her and decided to send her to psychologist for a therapy. She did change for better and I couldn’t believe it. Then, I met a german friend, his wife screwed around and he simply go to psychologist for a psychotherapy and he sounds good better and better. I asked my friends there, if it is just ok if they will have their wife and husband for a therapy? They said, it’s normal in EU as it’s help really.

In the Philippines, if you are under psycho-therapy, they think bad against you. But I have learned in Europe that it is just fine and normal if you feel too much disappointment, distress, bored etc. I don’t want to advise you to go for it but if this will help and I am sure it will, I will do it.

Sometimes, our best enemy is our self, not the other people.
With your passport, I have met many Filipinas who wish to apply British passport, but their problem is money and they can’t afford it. You are so lucky indeed.

I envy you having a new car and you can drive. That’s one thing I should learn in the future! I want a smart car!!!!

We love you Maria!

i really do not believe that any women on early menopause is not affected physically or emotionally! i found that so so not true! i go to a group for women on early menopause and most women there are worst off than me. the mood swings that they go makes me look like i am not on menopause at all. a lady even tried killing herself. i think what you should understand is i am not suppose to be on menopause yet, this is a forced early onset caused by a complete hysterectomy.
and i do not need to see any psychologists to make me feel better, i am dealing with this the best way i know how. and i look at myself and feeling lucky that i am not as bad as most girls i know in our support group.