More on Jennifer and Michaels marrage problems

[bornatbirth]

if she ever read this, i think your sex life and your marriage will be over...

[aromulus]

if she ever read this, i think your sex life and your marriage will be over...

He hasn't got much, or any of either now as it stands....

I haven't fully figured the angle, but I am sure he's getting stitched up.

I dearly hope not.

[September]

He hasn't got much, or any of either now as it stands....

I haven't fully figured the angle, but I am sure he's getting stitched up.

I dearly hope not.

Mod your brain is working very very good

[bornatbirth]

Mod your brain is working very very good

[Alan]

Mick - I haven't commented so far - for good reasons as far as I'm concerned.
Your family here on the forum (myself included) is only able to make comments based upon what you have stated with regard to your situation - and put forward their own personal views.

Of course, only YOU know the real truth and the real situation - none of us could come anywhere near to guessing what goes on behind the closed doors of your relationship - and therefore we come down to advising you based upon what has happened to you.

However, a lot of us have experience in matters of the heart as it were, and we have learned to spot 'red flags.'

Mick, if you will allow me, and I sincerely apologise if I am wrong, but I spot a HUGE red flag here! I only hope that I am wrong!!

I - and everyone else on your thread, are looking out for you Mick. I really hope that you know what you are doing.

If I DO turn out to be wrong, then I surrender to your chastisement!

Al.

[September]

Dont laugh, I am serious ...ahh sometimes love is blind

[darren-b]

He hasn't got much, or any of either now as it stands....

I haven't fully figured the angle, but I am sure he's getting stitched up.

I dearly hope not.

The angle could be fairly simple - here to work for money to send back home. After 2 years or so (if she can last that long) could get permanent residency and then do what she likes.

Like others on here I question her motives, though I really hope I am totally wrong.

[joebloggs]

The angle could be fairly simple - here to work for money to send back home. After 2 years or so (if she can last that long) could get permanent residency and then do what she likes.

Like others on here I question her motives, though I really hope I am totally wrong.

well all he has to do is not sign her ILR app and apply for FLR instead, stating she has not passed the life in uk test, so she will probably be given a further 2 yrs FLR. it gives them a further 2yrs to see how they get on or dont get on

[darren-b]

well all he has to do is not sign her ILR app and apply for FLR instead, stating she has not passed the life in uk test, so she will probably be given a further 2 yrs FLR. it gives them a further 2yrs to see how they get on or dont get on

FLR/ILR won't exist by then, but I guess they will be a similar option...

But if things are going well (or a least look to be going well..) after two years, suggesting a further probationary period might cause a bit of an arguement

[joebloggs]

FLR/ILR won't exist by then, but I guess they will be a similar option...

But if things are going well (or a least look to be going well..) after two years, suggesting a further probationary period might cause a bit of an arguement

well if he has his doubts and if she thinks she can automatically get ILR in 18 months or whatever,she's wrong, as he's still holding all the cards and it's up to him whether she can stay here or not