the end of my marriage
im not going to illaborate what happen,,,
all i can say we are now seperated,
and he doesnt want me anymore...and he expect me to be calm and happy...
no husband... no home... and i should be calm and happy...
Life couldnt get any better...
thats the end of my long long long painful marriage
still painful tho,,,just hope this pain will go away soon...just hope
I know it seems hard sometimes, but remember one thing, through every dark night, there's a bright day after that. So no matter how hard it gets, keep your chest out, keep your head up and handle it...
time is a great healer Allyn
i hope things improve for you soon
Real life is not Hollywood
Take care... you have friends here
Keith - Administrator
thanks joe,,
i hope so...
I know it seems hard sometimes, but remember one thing, through every dark night, there's a bright day after that. So no matter how hard it gets, keep your chest out, keep your head up and handle it...
thanks boss winwin...
i know i have... thats why im still sane (sometimes...) coz i know i still have friends...
I know it seems hard sometimes, but remember one thing, through every dark night, there's a bright day after that. So no matter how hard it gets, keep your chest out, keep your head up and handle it...
it willOriginally Posted by allyn
i've been thru sometimes, and the old saying 'if it doesn't kill you it will make you stronger' is true.
its an end of a chapter in your life, and a new one starts
Sorry to hear this Allyn, but did wonder if it was on the cards gong by what had happened before.Strangely I was only wondering earlier tonight before I popped out how you had been getting on since we last heard from you. Like Keith says, you have plenty of friends here that will help you all we can.
im trying my best to hang on before,,,and just keep on saying,,,maybe, and hoping to the last minute..but like what i said...im fighting a losing battle...and now im totally lost...
thanks south east boy...
I know it seems hard sometimes, but remember one thing, through every dark night, there's a bright day after that. So no matter how hard it gets, keep your chest out, keep your head up and handle it...
thanks joe,it will
i've been thru some
its an end of a chapter in your life, and a new one starts
just feel like totaly abandone at the moment,,, and trying my best to wear a brave face infront of every one...trying to smile as much as i can ...
just back from the philippines 2 weeks ago, seen my dad's grave for the first time, all i can say when i saw my dad's grave is sorry,,,for not listening to him before (he told me that when my husband had enough of me he will just throw me somewhere, thats the worst scenario im trying to avoid, and i stand up for my husband) and for not coming back to see him when he died...
And then this is what i came back to...
life couldnt be much better...
then my ex husband have a guts to tell me to be happy and calm..
no home, no husband,,,great...how great life is
I know it seems hard sometimes, but remember one thing, through every dark night, there's a bright day after that. So no matter how hard it gets, keep your chest out, keep your head up and handle it...
what's happened is the past and you cant change it, but you can change your future, keep on being strong and one day at a time, and now is the time to show your dad how strong you can be
dont have regrets or think too much about the past, it will only make youAllyn
Please don't chastise yourself, Allyn. "It's so easy to be wise after the event" ... as the old saying goes. We've all made *mistakes ... but, from what you've shared with us since last year, getting this "spineless" man and his dysfunctional family out of your life certainly *isn't one of yours!Indeed, it's a great achievement on your part! YOU deserve much better, my friend ... and moving out of that
As has already been mentioned, you can rely on the support of your many friends here on the forum - whenever you need us - and I'm very sure, too, the people you've come to know well through your work will also rally round.
God Bless.
Hi there,
if you need a break from your surroundings and can get time off I have an empty house and a very caring Christain Filipino community around our area. My wife and babies are enjoying time in the Phils and I am at work all day (or will be when I get back from Hong Kong next Tuesday) so you are welcome to stop for a break if you want. I remember reading your story and Arthiur and others have said you are well rid of him and his crazy family.
ingat and god bless
Scott
Live your life for a reason and don't worry be happy
if you don't know where you are going then any road will do!!
Get out and move on sis, roller coaster of emotions probably won't stabilize for 6 months or so - divorce/separation is a MAJOR life change.
Smile and the raw edge of the emotions wears off in time..
''Don't be serious..Be Sincere''
Sorry to hear the news Allyn
Don't make promises when you are in JOY. Don't reply when you are SAD.
Don't take decisions when you are ANGRY. Think twice, Act wise. BE happy.
I would strongly disagree with that, I think that many members on this forum would agree with me that given what you have posted here previously about the behavior of your husband and his family towards you, that you are at last found in some way and I believe you will now be able to get on with your life and I'm sure you will go from strength to stength in the future.im trying my best to hang on before,,,and just keep on saying,,,maybe, and hoping to the last minute..but like what i said...im fighting a losing battle...and now im totally lost...
thanks south east boy...
Hello allyn,im not going to illaborate what happen,,,
all i can say we are now seperated,
and he doesnt want me anymore...and he expect me to be calm and happy...
no husband... no home... and i should be calm and happy...
Life couldnt get any better...
thats the end of my long long long painful marriage
still painful tho,,,just hope this pain will go away soon...just hope
My wife left me around 7weeks ago, I loved her very much, but when you can take positive action like divorce or an anualment you will start to regain confidence in yourself, yopu did all you could to make your marriage work, he is the looser.
Mick.
Hi Allyn,
Everything happens for a reason. Just keep praying to be brave. And start to move on.
sorry to hear what happen allyn...
to loved and beloved is the greatest joy on earth...
Hi Allyn
Glad you made contact here, I think we've all been wondering how you've been getting on.
We're all sorry for you, as you obviously loved him, just a shame he never showed you the same, not even his family.
You started some horriffic threads, that made us all feel really uncomfortable.
Not easy for you now, but please stay in contact here...Plenty will help.
sorry to hear the outcome... but at least, you fought for your marriage and you are willing to fight for your marriage... your husband doesn't deserve a kind and loving woman like you.. so, big loss for him!
Sorry to hear that it ended like this. I know it takes time before you could fully move on but I think this will also be the time to pick up the pieces of yourself and start anew. There are things that we don't want to happen but have to accept. Time heal all wounds as they say.
You did your part in saving your marriage and please don't see yourself as a loser in this battle. You deserve someone who respects you in every way. And someday you'll be thankful that you were free from this kind of relationship. Be brave! Remember always that you aren't alone
Though you do not write books, you are the writer of your life. Because everything depends on YOU.
Tried to ring you many times before but not even ringing.
If you're still homeless, I can speak to my friend in Edinburgh to accommodate you.
Cheer up!
You must be happy now as you are free from him and realised your Dad was right. It is your turn now to improve yourself as you still have your loving Mom to show that you are now on the right track. Go go go girl! Move on!
remember this quote:
“When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one, which has been opened for us.”
forgetting the pain is a long process...just cry and let your emotions out its just ok...the pain will go away when u get tired and u will know its the time to bring back smile to your heart...
whenever i have a heavy heart i always talk to GOD and i can feel how He comforts me in such a special way
awww so sorry to hear that, if u need any help please let me know... i have been there before with my first husband so i know what its like, hope u r ok
God grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change, the courage to change the things i can and the wisdom to hide the bodies of those people i had to kill because they pissed me off.
So sorry to read what has happened
From the previous posts you have made before this thread I am surprised you stuck it out for so long, but I guess a Filipina takes her vows seriously...
I wish you all the best now and hope you meet a guy who is worthy of your love
Maybe you will move on to BETTER things!?
It may not feel that way now...but you'll move on to better things I'm sure..
There are 7 Planes Of Existance:
7 — Material Plane: The earth, where you are right now.
6 — Plane of Forces
5 — Astral Plane
4 — Mental Plane
3 — Too mysterious to describe.
2 — Too mysterious to describe.
1 — Too mysterious to describe.
hi every one....
thank you very much for all you post,,,each and every one post are very important to me and really make me feel better...
i know i have lots of friends here, im so thank ful im member of this forum...
trying to live one day at a time (hope i said it right)
trying not to think and just keep my self busy...
trying to be positive...
thanks every one....
I know it seems hard sometimes, but remember one thing, through every dark night, there's a bright day after that. So no matter how hard it gets, keep your chest out, keep your head up and handle it...
Hi there, if you feel really down, just log on here and you will see what friends you have, take care and think of only yourself.
Live your life for a reason and don't worry be happy
if you don't know where you are going then any road will do!!
Fighting a losing battle..but you'll win the war for sure!
There are 7 Planes Of Existance:
7 — Material Plane: The earth, where you are right now.
6 — Plane of Forces
5 — Astral Plane
4 — Mental Plane
3 — Too mysterious to describe.
2 — Too mysterious to describe.
1 — Too mysterious to describe.
Allyn i like many have read the threads you have started on certain issues and theres only one se of losers in this relationship and its the husband and certain members of his family.
There are some truely amazing people on this site who will help you how ever they can. All may seem dark now but you will soon see the shunshine after the rain for all the problems you have had you deserve it.
Oh lord why did you make so many clothes and shoe shops
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