Not a great week

[KeithD]

The problem with going back to Sing is that it'll take her a years wage to pay off the agency fees, so how is the family going to be better?

If you've been dating her this long and still have doubts and a lack of trust, plenty of Filipina's around who will treat you the way you expect. You both sound like two parts of a puzzle that don't fit together but you keep trying to force them together.

[Englishman2010]

The problem with going back to Sing is that it'll take her a years wage to pay off the agency fees, so how is the family going to be better?

If you've been dating her this long and still have doubts and a lack of trust, plenty of Filipina's around who will treat you the way you expect. You both sound like two parts of a puzzle that don't fit together but you keep trying to force them together.

You are absolutely right, it doesn't make any sense. I have my own views on how the debt might be paid back early