Any advice before getting married?

[stevie c]

Hi purple im sure your soon to be husband wiil love & take care of your children if he knows about your children im sure he realises that you & your children come as a package & therefore he really needs to show them the love & care they deserve

[purple]

Hi purple im sure your soon to be husband wiil love & take care of your children if he knows about your children im sure he realises that you & your children come as a package & therefore he really needs to show them the love & care they deserve

Hi steve,
yes he knows about my children and have met them everytime he comes to phils.
my only concern is by the time when we have a children of our own. it will make me choose between looking after my new family or work for living for my children from my previous relationship. surely it is not something I can juggle up together as I need to have priorities.
about him accepting my kids is not the issue. it is about me setting priorities really.
it is different when one is already married.
thanks for the advices, would appreciate any opinions.