Help and advice - prenups

[Arthur Little]

David, I have absolutely no experience of divorce ... but I do feel you're being a tad cynical about marriage. You really need to be sure it's what you WANT before taking the plunge! No offence intended.

[mickcant]

David, I have absolutely no experience of divorce ... but I do feel you're being a tad cynical about marriage. You really need to be sure it's what you WANT before taking the plunge! No offence intended.

Hi David,
I am unfortunately on divorce no 3!

First marriage lasted 26 years, I married I thought for life, I then divorced her as she was having affairs, one with my so called best mate.
We did not have much money to fight over but I could not afford to keep my home either.

Marriage no 2 lasted 9 years, we parted because of problems with my step children
They never took to me and saw me as a threat to their inheritance, so a pre nup might have helped us with that, but the wife always took her children’s side so that finished that.

Marriage no 3 was to a Filipina in 2008, I loved her a lot, but it turned out she married me only for what money she could get and a ticket to the UK to work and the visa.
We are now divorcing.

There is no money to fight over she has allready had it one way or anouther.

Mick.