Help I think im being conned

[phoebe]

By the way, you mentioned he met someone else ...I am not too sure because it was snowing heavily in North of England ,no way he was out meeting someone....maybe on internet????Or he is bored with me?? Two days before Christmas , he was acting grouchy and irritable ....because of weather??
So , my Christmas was not very nice ....why people are so selfish ...spoiling other people festive moods?

[Sim11UK]

By the way, you mentioned he met someone else ...I am not too sure because it was snowing heavily in North of England ,no way he was out meeting someone....maybe on internet????Or he is bored with me?? Two days before Christmas , he was acting grouchy and irritable ....because of weather??
So , my Christmas was not very nice ....why people are so selfish ...spoiling other people festive moods?

Hi Phoebe...sorry to hear of your troubles over Christmas. Maybe he just didn't think the 2 of you were compatible, or was having difficulty with a long distance relationship...it's certainly not for everyone.
Stick around here, lots have been in your situation. Things will get better.

[phoebe]

Thanks Sim11uk. Well,I somehow find it strange becoz two weeks before Christmas he told me he likes me sending me messages then 2 days leading to Christmas have a sudden change.Can the weather affect a person so much?Seasonal depression?Or previous relationship?I somehow left wondering now what had happened or is it men are so indecisive and irresponsible?Thank God we did not meet in person otherwise I would be badly hurt emotionally. Right now, I am not sure what to do if he rings,message or email me.I understand LDR is not for everyone but I started as friends.Anyway, he did said though he is being funny he still have feelings for me.Is just that he likes his independance .....or he is a free spirit.........

[quickwillow]

Hi Phobe,
Welcome to the site, sorry to hear about your story. Maybe you should start a new thread and see what happens? There are many people with similar experiences here that will give good advice

[Arthur Little]

Hi Phobe,
Welcome to the site, sorry to hear about your story. Maybe you should *start a new thread and see what happens? There are many people with similar experiences here that will give good advice

That's an excellent Mark ... I've since posted my own to Phoebe, suggesting she do just *that.

[Ako Si Jamie]

By the way, you mentioned he met someone else ...I am not too sure because it was snowing heavily in North of England ,no way he was out meeting someone....maybe on internet????Or he is bored with me?? Two days before Christmas , he was acting grouchy and irritable ....because of weather??
So , my Christmas was not very nice ....why people are so selfish ...spoiling other people festive moods?

Obviously I don't know that for sure. It just sounds that way as the cold weather excuse seems a bit feeble. He could have met someone else online maybe another Filipina or someone in the UK. Sorry if this sounds harsh. Just trying to make you understand that people do make an excuse to end a relationship rather than actually telling you.

[phoebe]

Thanks jamiexxxmaria.I see what you mean. Do you think I should answer his message?Well, do you think the guy will contact me if he has another girl friend?Just curious.I supposed the answer is NO.By the way, what does it means wearing his heart on his sleeves?Does that sounds right?Not sure what it means.Thanks everyone for the advice and help.